So you’ve decided to cloth diaper, and you have a baby on the way. You’ve decided on the style and brand of diapers to buy, and now you just need to decide how many to buy. As tempting as it is to get all of the styles and colors possible, you will discover that buying cloth diapers upfront can absolutely bankrupt you if you go a little crazy. Many people know this from experience. I, uh, may or may not be one of those people. So, before you drain your bank account, let’s explore the question: how many do you really need?
If you’re a child, you might look outside and see skies that are a little more blue, breathe in air that’s a little more fresh, hear a few more birds chirping, and see the bright green buds of flowers unfurling from the ground. The world is changing and full of wonder. If you’re an adult, you might look outside and see sunlight still streaming through your child’s windows at bedtime, breathe in air that makes you sneeze, hear the incessant screech of birds at 5am, and see the unwelcome buds of flowers that promise to spray pollen at your nose every time you walk by. The world is changing and full of minor annoyances that only exist at this time of year. However you look at it, spring has arrived.
One fine spring morning, I decided we’d drive to the local university to see the cherry blossoms blooming on the trees. Then I actually pulled up the blinds and saw the dark clouds rolling towards us, plump with rain. The next day was the same, with an added bonus of extreme wind. The third day I was getting a little desperate and tried to point out the blossoming trees you could kind of see from our top-floor apartment window. My two year old glanced out, blandly noted that a city bus was driving by, then continued painting her limbs purple with a jar of tempura paint. I gave up and decided if we couldn’t go see spring blossoms, by golly we’d make our own.
- Tissue paper or colored coffee filters
- Sticks or branches
- Construction paper
- Glue strong enough to keep sticks on the construction paper
Okay. You’ve chosen between using hook-and-loop or snap closures on your diapers, or even a mixture of both. No more closure issues to deal with, right? Well, guess what—not all snap closures are the same, and different snap configurations can be the difference between you being able to use a diaper on your child or not!
I don’t mean to depress you, or send cloth diaper newbies away screaming at all the choices they have to make. But more than once, I have heard stories about parents buying a big-brand diaper that others rave about, only to discover that the snaps are too low or too far apart to get a good fit on their child, and they sadly return the diaper. Unfortunately, you won’t know what snap styles will fit your child until you are actually putting the diaper on him or her. Luckily, you can make most diapers work, but it can be frustrating when one just won’t fit properly and you know it’s because of snap placements. Let’s look at some snap styles below.
One of the things on every new cloth diapering family’s to-get list is a wetbag. What is a wetbag? For one, it is not a bag that is wet; though it is a bag that will potentially be wet (I guess the name Potentially Wet Bag didn’t really catch on). Wetbags are waterproof bags about the size of a sheet of printer paper, give or take a couple of inches depending on the brand, that close with a zipper. You know how baby stores sell little disposable bags to hook onto a diaper bag or stroller that are meant to store a disposable diaper until you can get to a trashcan? Wetbags are the cloth diaperer’s version of that.
From that basic description, wetbags can really differ from each other depending on the manufacturer. Some have extra zippered pockets on the sides, so you can store dry diapers, wipes, and other supplies apart from the dirty diapers on the inside. Some have loops on one corner so you can hang the wetbag from a hook or doorknob, and there are a surprising number of varieties these loops come in. Some are a simple loop of elastic, others are made of thick fabric and have snaps so you can snap them on and off whatever hook or knob you have.
Many parents proudly proclaim that they and their kids “went on a nature walk today!” Living in the downtown area of the city makes nature walks a little harder to do. I can’t even get to a park without driving there or walking ten blocks up a steep hill (hence, the driving). Rather than going on a “nature walk,” it’s more like “we went on a walk and accidentally ran into nature along the way.” Don’t get me wrong, I love that my toddler daughter likes to explore and learn what bits of the world aren’t just never-ending traffic and sirens and pavement and the skyscrapers she calls “da big, big houses!” But everything she finds comes home with us. Flowers? Rocks? Sticks? A worm? Bottle cap? They all come home tucked away in her crevices of her carseat, or pockets, or shoes, or the diaper bag; her hoarding is evident everywhere. The other day she carefully poured a scoopful of dirt into my pocket because she had no room for it in her own stuff.
One day, while browsing Pinterest (of course), I came across a project someone did for her daughter she named the “Fairy Loom.” It was the perfect solution to the nature hoarding issue, although I renamed it the “Nature Stick” for my daughter since she doesn’t care about fairies, but loves sticks. It works well as a storage solution, a toy, and a decoration.
Hyperemesis Gravidarum. HG. It’s a fancy way of saying “feel like death.”
Are you not familiar with what this is?
As a woman in childbearing age, I used to think pregnancy was cute. You’d get this cute little belly that grew, and people were happy for you, and you were all smiles as you walked around absent mindedly rubbing your growing little one. Every now and then, the happy pregnant mom might catch a whiff of something she might deem distasteful, and she’ll be off to the restroom to do some light gagging, but nothing too serious.
Then I got pregnant with my son, who is now 3. I had some light morning sickness kick in around 5 weeks. Okay, it was 5 weeks 4 days to be exact. I remember. I felt like I was going to be sick all day. I remember Googling everything I could, and I found B6 is supposed to help. Fabulous! I remember calling my husband and telling him to bring that stuff home, pronto!
B6 works, along with Unisom, to a degree. I puked all the time. I puked in the morning getting ready for work as a teacher. I puked in the trash can before the kids walked in the door. I puked before 1st hour, 2nd hour, and 3rd hour. I puked at lunch. I puked after lunch. I couldn’t even THINK of cooking dinner. We ate Jimmy Johns a lot. At 10 weeks I was hospitalized for dehydration, and was introduced to a beautiful, wonderful medication called Zofran.
Some people cloth diaper because they’re highly passionate about saving the earth, or they want to avoid harsh chemicals and advocate a “natural” livelihood (“natural” is in quotes because it means something different to every person).
I cloth diaper because I’m lazy and a pansy.
Um, okay, you may be thinking, aren’t cloth diapers MORE work than disposables? And what does the plant species viola x wittrockiana have to do with anything?
I am lazy in that I hate going to the store for only one or two things. Since I live in an urban area, “running to the store” for me involves getting the kids ready, then dragging them down the hall, down the elevator hoping I don’t lose my toddler to the stairwell along the way since she actually thinks hiking down seven flights of stairs is fun, through the parking garage hoping I don’t lose my toddler to the stairwell along the way since she actually thinks hiking UP seven flights of stairs is fun, cursing the person with the giant SUV who has the parking space next to us and thinks that she is supposed to park one inch away from our car so I can’t open the side door and have to crawl through the trunk to snap in the infant carseat, and then fight the traffic that turns what should be a five minute drive into a fifteen minute one. If I’m going anywhere it needs to be worth my time, none of this “let me just go pick up a bag of flour real quick” stuff. My experience with other disposable items in our home is that rather than “run to the store,” I was ending up substituting reusable items when we ran out of the disposable ones anyway. Out of napkins? Use a dishcloth. Out of paper towels? Use a dishcloth. If we ran out of disposable diapers in the middle of the day, I knew there was no way I’d want to run to the store and grab more real quick, and would have said, “Out of diapers? Use a dishcloth (really!)” anyway. I had briefly considered using disposable diapers with my second child, but knew there was no way I’d want to go through all of the above whenever we were out of disposables, so cloth it was.
It is spring. Up until recently, we lived in an apartment with a balcony and every March I would begin planting herbs, flowers, and other plants that grew well in pots. We live in a new apartment without a balcony now, and it’s difficult to grow anything indoors without the cats deciding that yes, tiny plants are The Best Thing To Eat, Even Moreso Than Meat. How to help my toddler enjoy flowers from the comfort of our own home? Why, we do an art project, of course.
- Coffee filters
- Spray bottle full of water
- Tape, or other temporary adhesive
- A window
- A child, toddler age preferred but any you have on hand will do
My husband was finally used to changing a disposable diaper. He could roll it up and dispose of it. He knew which side was the front and how to unfold the diaper. Then we switched to cloth diapers and daddy had to beat the learning curve of diapers all over again.
I’m a stay at home mom and the main diaper changer in the home, but on the weekends I let my husband take over a little bit in that department. It didn’t take long to notice that he wasn’t comfortable with cloth diapers at all.
Don’t Expect Him To Know
I needed to sit down with him over a loaded diaper and teach him how we change diapers all over again. For example, we didn’t just roll them up and toss them away anymore. If they have solid waste it needs to be disposed of in the toilet as much as possible after the changing. We use inserts. It was important to know how to place them and which side of the diaper was the front and which snaps wrapped around.
What was even more important than all the diapering logistics was not making my husband feel like an idiot for not knowing how these new diapers worked. I asked questions and demonstrated. The next opportunity came to him.
The diaper sprayer as a tool in cloth diapering is very much an American standard. It is not as commonly used worldwide and in some cases even prohibited. There are many situations in which you may find yourself unable to use a diaper sprayer, be it short or long term in nature. From camping trips to travel, dispoable diaper liners are an answer to this dilema.
What exactly is a disposable liner?
A disposable diaper liner is a thin barrier that is laid between your baby and their diaper. Is catches physical waste while allowing liquids to pass through. They come in a variety of materials ranging from vicose to bamboo and with a variety of attributes including some that are flushable or biodegradable.
How do I use them?
They are actually quiet simple-