Child Safe Decorating

Posted 10-14-2014 at 02:58 PM by Matrivine

baby living room

When you first have children, decorating takes on a whole new dimension of thought. Instead of thinking something is pretty or would go great with your home , you think of your child instead. Will my son eat this if I put it in the bathroom? Will this be stable enough not to fall on my little girl if she pushes on it or even touches it? Here are a few child safe ways to decorate.

LED Candles

I love candles, but with the arrival  of my curious and mobile little guy, the idea of an open flame anywhere he may be able to reach put a damper on my candle burning. So now I use LED candles. Not only do they give the same ambiance that a flame lit candle would, they last longer. Best of all they are safe for my little guy to be around.

Wall Hangings

Rather than have heavy framed pictures that may (and have) fall off the wall, I use wall hangings made of cloth or a paper product. If these fall off the wall and hit my child, it won’t cause much more damage than that of a blanket falling on them. Always remember, however, that a wall hanging has no place over an infants bassinet or crib.

Diaper Swapers

Safety Tips for Infants

Posted 09-26-2014 at 03:02 PM by Matrivine

Little baby child in safety car seat
Whether it’s your first child or your seventh child, infant safety should be taken seriously. Here’s a little refresher course of a few safety necessities when working with infants.

Transportation

Whether you are riding in a car or on a bike it is important to make your little one’s safety a priority. When it comes to the car an infant should always ride in the back seat in a rear facing car seat. It’s easy to make sure you have your car seat installed properly. Check with the fire department, or ask hospital personnel to teach you how to install your car seat. Obey the laws regarding weight and age of a child when it comes to using a car seat. Also, when using an older model car seat make sure it meets the new safety standards.

Some bikes have a child seat on the back of the bike. When on a bike make sure that your infant is old enough to be on a bike. They should have advanced neck control and be able to wear a correctly fitting helmet. Know and obey all biking laws and stay on bike paths. Remember that your child is strapped in on the back of your bike. If you should take a spill the bike will take your little one down with you and they will be unable to move out of the way of any oncoming object. A safer way to bike with a child is to use a trailer for the back of your bike  instead. It is less likely to tip over.

Keeping Our Children Safe at Home

Posted 09-24-2014 at 01:49 PM by Matrivine

Child Safety

We all want to keep our children safe from the moment they exist in our lives. We feed them right, take precautions while bathing them, and never leave them in the tub unattended. We have the newest model crib and some of us won’t let our child sleep with a pillow until they are two years old. It sounds crazy, but we would rather be viewed as crazy and keep our kids safe. And then they do something perilous. They start walking and running.

For Explorers

They want to stick things in the electric socket, open the oven or fridge just to see what’s inside, and are busy trying to get into the shampoo as you read this. I use a good deal of hardware when it comes to my exploring toddler. To buy us time getting to our explorer it’s important to use drawer and cupboard latches, outlet covers, and in some cases door knob covers that are too bulky for little hands to turn. Some companies even sell oven locks and toilet seat locks to further deter your toddler’s quest to see where the water goes.

Two Healthy Swaddling Techniques for Baby

Posted 09-22-2014 at 09:24 AM by Rasha

swaddled baby

The sleep-deprived parent of a newborn, gazing lovingly at the peaceful little being who has finally fallen asleep. More often than not, as you watch, the baby’s arms or legs twitch out in a startle reflex, and the crying starts anew. Instead of helplessly waiting for this stage to pass, lull your newborn to sleep using approved swaddling techniques to keep your baby feeling secure, reduce crying time, and promote longer sleep.

The main thing to keep in mind when swaddling a newborn is to use the right technique to avoid developmental dysplasia of the hip. According to the International Hip Dysplasia Institute, suddenly straightening a newborn’s legs after months in the fetal position in the womb can loosen hip joints and damage the soft cartilage of the hip socket. To reduce the risk of this condition, which can cause hip problems and pain later in life, your baby’s legs should be able to move around, bending up and out from his body, while in the swaddle.

Potty Training Preparation

Posted 09-8-2014 at 10:55 AM by Matrivine

potty training prep
Potty training is not for the weak, but that doesn’t mean it has to be emotionally draining for you or your little one. Before you move into potty training take some time to make a plan. You know you won’t be using pull ups for all the same reasons you didn’t use disposable diapers. What plans do you have that you implement? Will you promote toilet target practice with your son. Will you convince your daughter that her potty chair is her princess throne. We get silly trying to get our children to use the potty. Here are a few things we are trying.

Have The Equipment Out

Long before you start trying to get your toddler to use them have your potty training tools in plain sight around your home. It’s hard to start potty training as it is. It’s not fun to try to get a toddler to sit on a new contraption he is uncomfortable and unfamiliar with. Let him inspect his soon to be underwear. The more familiar your child is with this new piece of clothing the more likely they are to actually wear it. If it helps have him wear the cloth diapers he is used to without an insert during potty training until he is ready to make the transition to underwear.

Winning With Weaning

Posted 09-4-2014 at 10:53 AM by Matrivine

happy kid

The only thing that may be more difficult than breastfeeding your baby can be weaning. They may not want to stop breastfeeding and you may have come to enjoy the special time that you share with your child. Here are a few things to consider when you are planning to wean your baby.

Make Sure The Baby Is Ready To Wean

Some little ones were born ready to wean. It’s been more of a struggle getting them to nurse than it will be taking them off the breast. Other children are the exact opposite. Healthcare workers recommend that you continue breastfeeding for at least six months. Some mothers feel they need to breastfeed their child until they are well into their second year of life. As your child’s mother it’s important that you are in tune with your child’s needs when it comes to moving on in the feeding department.

Breastfeeding a Sick Baby

Posted 08-26-2014 at 09:42 AM by Matrivine

breastfeeding lying down

Breastfeeding has perils all its own, but a sick baby adds a new dynamic of breastfeeding difficulties. Your little one may have trouble wanting to latch on because they can’t breathe through their nose. Or they may spit up more than usual. Here are a few ways to help breastfeeding along while yoru little one isn’t feeling well.

Airways

Keeping a baby’s airways clear during breastfeeding is always important. We all check to make sure our body isn’t covering the nose of our little one while they are on the breast. With a congested baby, however, we have to help keep their little nose clean, or we are in for a frustrating feeding time. Before the feeding and after each burping use a nasal aspirator to clear your little one’s nasal passages. You may choose to pump and give your little one your milk in a bottle during this time. It makes positioning more flexible and may help your little one pick a better position for their breathing. Check with your pediatrician before using any medications including nose clearing rubs. Some types of medication should not be used before certain ages.

Breastfeeding a Baby in Turmoil

Posted 08-13-2014 at 09:57 AM by Matrivine

Mother feeding her baby. Side lying

Breastfeeding doesn’t always go the way we plan. There are gas pains, lack of cooperation, and lots of crying. Sometimes your child has colic. Sometimes you don’t know why they aren’t cooperating and your pediatrician says it’s normal. Before throwing in the towel try these tips.

Step Back

Yes, your little one is crying. Yes, you feel the need to help him or her be happy and quietly go to sleep. Right now, however, you are frazzled and your nerves are raw from trying to get them to calm down for the past hour. So take a step back. After you have made sure they are burped, fed, and changed, take a five to ten minute break to regroup. It may be that your child will calm down because frazzled you has stepped away. Or it may be they will continue crying while you get a drink of water, go to the bathroom, or get a snack. Put your little one down for tummy time or in the baby swing. With a moment to breath you may think of a new way of approaching your unhappy baby that will bring a stop to the sadness.

Promoting Breastfeeding In Your Community

Posted 08-6-2014 at 12:12 PM by Matrivine

Smiling Nurse Assisting Woman In Breast Feeding Baby In Hospital featured

We know what is good for our little ones even when our culture or society is ill prepared to work with us. Here are a few ways to help our communities embrace a better understanding of how important breastfeeding is to the moms living in them.

The Nursing Room

Most churches I have attended have a nursing room. So do some, but not all, day care centers. That’s about it on the list of places that provide a room for women to breastfeed in public, which is disturbing for two reasons. First, gone are the days when it wasn’t common knowledge that breastfeeding a child was the best option for a child’s health. Second, if so many people are truly offended by the sight of breastfeeding, you would think they would provide an out of sight place. This would be good for customers and clients and employees of establishments and be a great compromise for those who find breastfeeding unsightly.

Bring these ideas to local business, assuring them that you would frequent them more often if they would reach this compromise with you. It doesn’t even need to be a new room. It could be an old utility closet with a sign on the door and a rocking chair.

The Helpful Toddler: Diapering

Posted 08-5-2014 at 03:01 PM by Matrivine

Mother breastfeeding her baby

Have you ever tried to diaper a newborn while receiving aid from a toddler? It’s one of the most frustrating things to do. On one hand you want to encourage the helpful nature of your toddler. On the other hand you would rather not have the contents of the newborn’s diaper decorate your home’s carpet. Luckily, for us all, there are ways to nurture your little helper and keep your carpet refuse free.

Snaps

Let your toddler help with snaps. The best way to allow this is the unsnapping of the diaper. This is because there is a pulling motion rather than a pushing motion. It’s not likely that, with your supervision, the toddler will fall on the baby. At the same time toddlers are fascinated with things that can open and close. This could also help the toddler with motor skills. The upside for you is as long as your little guy has a part to play he will most likely be fine letting you do the rest without trying to help more.

Gopher

Have your toddler be your gopher. Have him help get the wipes, the Desitin, or an insert for the diaper. Make sure all the materials are close by and then, as you need an item, ask for them. Between eighteen months and two years of age a toddler should be able to carry out simple requests. It will take some time for them, so be patient.