Just wondering at what point of time you start thinking about filing a dispute w/Pay Pal?
Reason I ask is b/c I bought a FB w/insert here from a mama 2 wks ago and never heard from her again. I've traded w/her b4 and though already back then there was a lack of communication it wasn't as bad as now (I'd really like to know when the dipe got shipped but never get an answer to my PM's or e-mails..).
I'm really wondering if I'd file w/PP just in case.. or give USPS more time to deliver the dipe???
I just don't want to risk losing the $ and the dipe, kwim?
WWYD?
clothdiapermom
06-11-2006, 06:40 AM
You have I think 45 days to file with paypal so since it has only been 14 days you should be fine. The USPS is running really really slow lately in some areas, so she very well could have mailed it when she said and it still hasn't gotten to you. As hard as it is too wait I think you should wait at least another week if not two . As disappointing as a lack of communication is I like to give people the benefit of the doubt that it is on its way. Maybe the mama is on vacation and that is why she hasn't gotten back with you.
So I would say you need to wait longer before filing, again the USPS is running really slow and on several of the boards I am on packages are taking 2-4 weeks to get places and some of them have been in state shipments.
FitMommyOf2
06-11-2006, 07:40 AM
Thanks for your reply, Meg.
Yes, I like to give the mama the credit of having shipped the dipe. If only I'd know when it'd make me already feel better, kwim? But like this I just paid and never heard anything again..
Oh well, you're probably right and it's just stupid USPS that totally sucks right now!..
I guess all I can do then is just wait.. :waiting:
SandyG
06-11-2006, 11:04 AM
have you seen your mam here on DS btw??
is she delib not pming you?
when you PM you askfor read reciept?? has she read it ??
FitMommyOf2
06-11-2006, 01:24 PM
Sandy,
I've seen no active posting of that mama ever since she sold me the dipe. At least her post count didn't go up since then.
And to be honest, no I didn't ask for a 'read receipt'.. :blush: I guess I'd do so to make sure she read it! Thanks for the tip, I'll go change it in my settings now!
SandyG
06-11-2006, 01:32 PM
PM her againa dn put a read receipt
and if she has the ability to email her, do that too
dont chek for posts but chek if the last time she logged in. some mamas dont post at all. :giggle: they dont chat like we do :giggle:
FitMommyOf2
06-11-2006, 02:46 PM
Where do I see when she logged in the last time? :dunno: :blush:
Sweet_Fantasy_Fox
06-11-2006, 04:50 PM
im sorry Val, i hope the mama starts communicating:hugs:
MyTwoSunshines
06-11-2006, 05:19 PM
Where do I see when she logged in the last time? :dunno: :blush:
Click on her profile and it'll list the date and time of her last activity on the board. :thumbsup: It should be to the right of her avatar.
FitMommyOf2
06-11-2006, 05:31 PM
Thanks, Sally! :)
I hope the dipe will be here soon and then I'll just mark this under experience..
Stacy,
thanks for the info, I'll check that out! :D
FitMommyOf2
06-11-2006, 05:40 PM
Yay, you mamas brought me luck! I just got an e-mail from the mama, asking if I got the dipe yet and if not, she'll make it right for me! *whew*
SandyG
06-11-2006, 07:44 PM
awesome to hear that!! :thumbsup:
at leawst the mama is going to help you out getting the diapie, im still waiting for my mama to help out :banghead:
FitMommyOf2
06-12-2006, 10:34 AM
The dipe arrived today! :bliss: So it was really just freakkin' USPS that didn't work fast..
Sorry about your missing dipe, Sandy! :hugs: I hope it'll still show up!!! :crossfingers:
Now I'm only waiting on my 4 dipes from a trade that are taking quite a long time... :waiting: -Can you tell I'm not a patient person!? :laugh:
