Ooey
07-06-2006, 04:01 PM
I just opend up my pm's on another site (one where people tippically don't buy/sell/trade things, just chat) and had the following message:
ok i sent your stuff today, its coming via UPS. the approx delivery date is 7/13. shipping was $12.39, not too shabby =)
Here is the story: She had posted a bunch of clothes ffs, and I had originally said, I would take almost all of them, that I thought $10 would cover shipping, and LMK if she wanted me to paypal her right then or wait and pay actual shipping. Well it turned out that she never checked her pm's and by later that day she had promised almost all of the stuff to other ladies, except for one shirt and one pair of pants. I was like, okay well I'll just take the shirt and pants you have left, and she said no problem. And now I get the above pm from her.
I am blown away that she would send 1 shirt and 1 pair of pants UPS and expect me to pay $12 for it!!! I mean that is more than I would pay for used clothes if I just went and bought them at a thrift store. And it makes it worse that the shirt and pants aren't even the ones that I *really* wanted, and I basically just took them because I need some clothes and they were ffs. This person is someone who I have talked to A LOT online and consider a friend, so I don't want to upset her, but I really think this is crazy! What should I do... just pay the money and not say anything? Or should I say something too her about it? HELP mamas!
ok i sent your stuff today, its coming via UPS. the approx delivery date is 7/13. shipping was $12.39, not too shabby =)
Here is the story: She had posted a bunch of clothes ffs, and I had originally said, I would take almost all of them, that I thought $10 would cover shipping, and LMK if she wanted me to paypal her right then or wait and pay actual shipping. Well it turned out that she never checked her pm's and by later that day she had promised almost all of the stuff to other ladies, except for one shirt and one pair of pants. I was like, okay well I'll just take the shirt and pants you have left, and she said no problem. And now I get the above pm from her.
I am blown away that she would send 1 shirt and 1 pair of pants UPS and expect me to pay $12 for it!!! I mean that is more than I would pay for used clothes if I just went and bought them at a thrift store. And it makes it worse that the shirt and pants aren't even the ones that I *really* wanted, and I basically just took them because I need some clothes and they were ffs. This person is someone who I have talked to A LOT online and consider a friend, so I don't want to upset her, but I really think this is crazy! What should I do... just pay the money and not say anything? Or should I say something too her about it? HELP mamas!
