I did a transaction on here with a mama and was pretty disappointed with how long it took to recieve the stuff I bought, I paid asap and she waited quite a while to even ship it out so it took forever for me to get something that I needed right away. i could have gone to the store here and bought almost the same thing, but figured I'd buy from another mama instead and save a few dollars and I'd rather support a mom than wal-mart! My problem is I don't feel like I should leave positive feed back because my experience wasn't so positive, I had a horrible time getting responses from pms too. But if I leave neutral or neg feedback (I'm thinking neutral as I did recieve it, just not in a timely matter) I'm worried the same will be done to me out of anger. Even though I held up my end of the agreement and paid right away! So what would you do? should I just not leave feedback at all?
MyTwoSunshines
07-27-2006, 12:45 PM
Some would probably not choose to leave any feedback at all in fear of retaliatory feedback. Since you paid right away, I think the mods may work with you if you leave her neutral feedback as you want to and she leaves you neutral or negative. Your end of the transaction was A-OK, it was on her end that it didn't go so well, not your fault. I would honestly leave the feedback. Some mamas here look at feedback for the people they buy from. Good luck!
lovemygirls
07-27-2006, 12:56 PM
Please leave apporiate feedback. Even if this person would leave you netural it won't change your feedback score at all. Hopefully there will be no retaliatory fb, and if there is I'd contact a mod and let one of us know.
OneFabMama
07-27-2006, 12:59 PM
I second Ginger - PLEASE LEAVE FEEDBACK! It's so important to DS and to make sure other mamas know what and who they are working with. So, I strongy urge you to leave her feedback that you feel is necessary positive or not. I know its hard to do it!
Dont worry about her leaving you retalitory feedback. If she does please contact any mod or admin and it will be looked into. We dont stand for retalitory feedback at all!
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