We decided to let nature take its course. I have severe female issues including PCOS, so theres no telling if it will happen or if we need meds again. We just are getting sick of charting and making sure we dont BD on days close to O and all that jazz......we just want to let things happen if they happen.
08-09-2006, 07:23 AM
I am using the BF method of BC ;) I "usually" don't get pg until I have had one cycle after or while BF. DH would like to wait until the babies are bigger but whatever God sees fit is fine wiht me.
08-12-2006, 12:56 AM
We would like it to happen once the babies get older...but we wont be upset if it happens now :)
08-13-2006, 07:13 PM
My husband is usig this method while I am actively trying to get pregnant. He is almost 30 and knows how this whole things works (he even knows charting) so I don't feel the least bit of sympathy for him.
08-13-2006, 10:10 PM
Yup, that's us right now. We couldn't decide when we wanted the next one, so we're not going to worry about it. DH is out of town this month and next when I am ovulating anyway, so it really makes no difference. This is what we did for DD as well and she was conceived the first month I was off the pill.
08-13-2006, 10:17 PM
Depends on who you ask. lol Me, I'd be just fine having another one already. DH wants to wait until DS is at least 2...I'm trying to get him to compromise on 1 1/2. But I use a diaphragm and if I'm feeling really lazy we'll use a condom. I keep hoping it'll break. lol I'm so bad.
08-26-2006, 10:45 AM
We are doing that. The only thing is that I know when I'm fertile so I try to make sure we have sex around that time to up our chances. It's a bit hard not to, as I have had baby fever since last Dec. :laugh:
08-28-2006, 06:35 PM
I think this is what we are doing..or not doing.... told DH Last Wednesday maye we should chart to avoid...and well...I think I missed something! LOL
08-28-2006, 06:57 PM
This is what we have done and the spacing was actually a little further than I would have liked...but we left it to God and He is the Master Planner!! Who am I to doubt that!! lol
Now that this baby willmake number 8 I am thinking maybe our quiver is full...I never felt that before and I am thinking so now.
08-29-2006, 03:18 PM
we are.... I just found out i need...*sigh*...$2,400 worth of work done to my mouth, and am going to go ahead and get it done under sedation, as i am a freak when it comes to going to the dentist. The meds they are going to use are category X, meaning "known to cause birth defects"...so this month, we will definitely make sure i don't get preggo, and are scheduling the dental visit during my next period, in about 3 weeks.
After that, we will be either "not trying, not preventing" OR "Actively trying" depending on how we feel at that time.
08-30-2006, 08:00 PM
We have fertility issues. DH is happy with 2, I would like another. Since I had to go all the way to IVF for DS2, we are just going to forego birth control, and if it happens fine, it was meant to be.