Well when i woke up this morning i went to wipe and i dont know why but i always look a my tp befor ei throw it in the toilet and i did and there was dark colored blood on it. I figured it was dry blood since i was a black greyish color.
Just to let you all know. i have really never felt pregnant. but they reason i thought i was was bcuz it hurt like hell to nurse my 9 month old and i could only eat 3-4 bies out of every meal that i had. and that is not normal. sad but true i eat more that i usually should when im not prengnant. but anyways and i took 2 different tests and everyone on here said i was. also yesterday i was at Sams club walking around with my Dh and kids and i all of a sudden had to stop cuz i felt like i was having a really bad contraction, wrse than the ones i have ever had with my previous two. it stopped me in my tracks, bu i tried to walk it out. but other than that one sharp pain i havent had any cramps or anything. so i dont know if this is a miscarriage or what. ive never had one.
I dont know what to think. ill post a pic of my tests from when i took them. but now im scared that i am having a miscarriage and i dont have insurance or anything. to go see a doc.
And i would be 7 weeks today, going off my conception date.
this is the first test
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Baby%203/pregtest1.jpg
and this is the second test, taken the next day
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Baby%203/day2pregtest.jpg
Ok its been abotu three weeks since i was bleeding and i finally got another test and have two more that i will test over the next few weeks too, but i am still pregnant according to my test. YAY!!!!
ok i took one test but two pictures. i took one while the urine was still movinf thru the test and then one when it was done moving thru the test. so the first one is still determining and the second one is done
Before Done
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Baby%203/beforedone71408.jpg
After Done
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Baby%203/afterdone71408.jpg
blossomgoat
06-26-2008, 10:00 AM
so sorry to hear.... but that second test did look like a BFP. I hope you are well!
LinsMo
06-26-2008, 10:03 AM
:hugs: Are you still bleeding? It's hard to tell from those pictures, but it does look like there are 2 lines there.
when I had a miscarriage, it started off with just a little bit of blood and slight cramping. then I would say about 5-6 hours later I started to bleed like a period. It just felt like a really heavy period. Definitely call your doctor. If you are having a miscarriage, they will know and they will need to make sure everything has passed.
also, sometimes people just bleed during pregnancy, so I hope it's nothing! I would call the dr anyway just to let them know you had some bleeding. I hope it's nothing :hugs:
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 10:37 AM
well i dont have a doctor yet, i just moved back tto my home town where i had my DD, so i could go to that doc, bu he rejected me cuz i was going to have a HB. also i am still bleeding and it feels like a period. im so scared, i've never bled during a pregnancy and i have never had a miscarriage.
asteiner18
06-26-2008, 10:54 AM
:hugs: those lines were + they were BFP's i would call the doctor :hugs: i wouldnt give up hope yet!!!!
asteiner18
06-26-2008, 10:58 AM
ok... i just went to the bathroom and i am bleeding a lil bit..... i am on the phone with my obgyn right now!
I_am_Blessed
06-26-2008, 11:10 AM
:hugs: I hope all is well. When I went to see my Dr., she told me that I may bleed with this baby (because I haven't had AF since before DD was conceived)... and I was talking to a lady the other day who said she had regular periods until she was about 6 months pregnant... she didn't go to the OB or anything because she had no idea she was pregnant, and she was shocked to find how far along she was.
I hope it is just normal bleeding... You are in my prayers.
asteiner18
06-26-2008, 11:39 AM
ok i just got off the phone with my obgyn and she said since it was soo soo little... like the size of a pen head, and we dtd the other day that is why :hugs: have you dtd lately?
Babybug
06-26-2008, 11:56 AM
Bleeding does not necessarely mean a mc.....can anyone maybe help you financially get medical help ???
I bled so bad when pregnant with DS#2 that I thought for sure I was miscarrying and it turned out it was a placental hematoma. DS is nice and healthy today.
I understand you wanting a all natural homebirth but maybe in this situation the best is to seek help from a OB that way you will know what is going on.
massbb2
06-26-2008, 12:31 PM
I bled with both my boys. It's not indicative of a m/c. You should take it easy though. A lot of bright red, heavy bleeding would be a cause for concern. Some spotting here and there shouldn't be.
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 01:16 PM
ok i just got off the phone with my obgyn and she said since it was soo soo little... like the size of a pen head, and we dtd the other day that is why :hugs: have you dtd lately?
yes we dtd two nights ago, i was thinking it might be that too, but i am not bleeding anymore, and the only blood that came out was the dark greyish blood(which is usually dry blood)
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 01:21 PM
thank you ladies for allyour concerns, i appreciate it so much
Babybug
06-26-2008, 01:29 PM
So happy the bleeding has stopped !!!
asteiner18
06-26-2008, 02:02 PM
i still think it my have been from dtd... mine was pink, not dark, and very very little, but the doctor said it could be either and in a lil larger quantity.... the said to come in tho if it was enough to get on my underwear! :hugs:
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 02:39 PM
well this was enought to get on my underwear, thats how i first noticed it.
and we dont have insurance and i'm scared to go to a doc with out insurance
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 02:54 PM
well i am bleeding again.
ok this has started out like any of my other periods. its a dark red color now.
Also i dont have any support from my husband at this point because he claims he never saw a line on the pregnancy tests. so he doesnt believe this could be a m/c.
i know im being very picky bout not going to the doc but i guess you'd have to know waht kinda money situation were in. we just moved to a new city and my dh only has a pt job paying 8.50 hr and that is 1600 dollars short of what we use to make. so i have no choice to go or not. we dont have the money in anyway possible for me to go to the doc or the hospital.
i dont know what to do or anything. im so lost, and i have to be strong and get stuff done tomorrow and friday cuz its my DD 3rd birthday that she is been looking forward to for weeks.
Babybug
06-26-2008, 03:50 PM
Well....first of all I'm so sorry you are going through this and sorry your DH is not being supportive. The line is very obvious to me and I don't understand how he can doubt that plus the fact that you have not had your period for the past 7 weeks.
Is there a way for you to maybe call a doctor and ask what you need to do as of now with the bleeding and ask approx how much it would cost. Then you will have an idea of how much money you need.
Do you have freinds or family that would be willing to lend you money ?....Things you can sell quickly ?
I've never miscarried but I would think it's important to see a doc to make sure everything is ok.
gbryndi
06-26-2008, 04:13 PM
well were in the process of trying to sell some of our bigger items that we rarely use to jsut pay rent. and a friend of mine told me that i could go to a doc and tell them im applying fro medicaid and have them bill me later. so i have the medicaid forms and am filling them out and i will got o the docs monday. its the soonest i can even have some open time. my dd bday is saturday and i have to get evrything omorrow ready for it. right now my dd is more important than myself right now.
akrancher
06-26-2008, 05:04 PM
Head to Planned Parenthood. If you have never gone before, you will probably have to go as a walk-in.
Keep us posted. Praying that it is nothing.
AshB
06-26-2008, 05:14 PM
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I hope that it ends up being nothing. That 2nd test looked positive to me. If I were you I'd go to the health department, they only charge based on your income. Good luck!!
gbryndi
06-27-2008, 10:06 PM
well here is a little update. not to much has happened. last night i felt like throwing up(which is normal to me right now, morning sickness since 4 weeks) so i have a feeling i am still pregnant, but i only bleed like a quarter size amount of blood yesterday, and the same amout today.
but i waas thinking back thru my other pregnancies and when i first got pregnant with DD i had a 3 day bleeding with her at about 5 wks. so i am thinkin it mght be the same thing. Just some unwanted blood that the baby and placents didnt accept and since it was the first time we dtd since concieving(yes sad to admit my dh doesnt get sex alot, i dont have a huge drive) it could have just been coming out finally. i am going to go get another test in 2 wks to make sure.
thank you all for your concerns and i might still go to the doc on monday. But i have a 3 yr olds bday to worry about tomorrow morning. I am way excited for it. i made her cake tonight. it turned out so cute. i love it. ill post a picture of it.
here are pics(sorry a little blurry i had to take with my camera phone)
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Taryn%203rd%20bday/0627081805a.jpg
http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d187/gbryndi/Taryn%203rd%20bday/0627081805.jpg
Babybug
06-28-2008, 07:28 AM
Wow....what a georgous cake !!!....mmmm I'd soooo love a peice right now.
Happy to hear everything is turning out ok with your pregnancy !!
DrLynne
06-28-2008, 07:46 AM
Where in Texas are you? I'm in Houston and I know there are clinics you can go to for the uninsured that charge very little, like $20 or $30 for a visit. You can always go to the ER and just tell them you can't pay right now they should still treat you. My last pregnancy with my little girl I blead a little for a week straight and it stopped and she was fine. When I had a miscarriage I blead a little every day for a few days and then it stopped and then clumps and clumps of blood, sorry TMI, and cramping Had to go to the hospital, I was 6wks6days (surrogate pregnancy)not my own. Your test was definitely positive and you are pregnant, you really should see a Dr., you don't want something serious to happen especially with that cramping, could be an etopic pregnancy which could be very dangerous. HTH
Lynne
gbryndi
07-06-2008, 10:39 AM
well i have stopped bleeding but i get the worst cramps in the world, and only at nihgt and its a horrible cramp about every 2 min and about three of them then it stops. But i never had clumps come out and i still feel my sickness like i did before the bleeding. i just turned in my medicaid forms so i should be going soon. And i am in EL Paso tx.
JulieD81
07-06-2008, 06:30 PM
I hope you can get to a doctor or a clinic soon. Im sorry you are in pain and I hope everything is okay!
gbryndi
07-14-2008, 05:51 PM
Bump for update in post one adn still PREGGERS
asteiner18
07-15-2008, 09:30 AM
im glad yoour test are still getting lines! have you seen a doc yet???
gbryndi
07-15-2008, 09:41 AM
unfortunately i have not seen a doc yet, i had to take my DS into the doc yesterday for an enlarged penis and blisters on the head of his penis, and it turned out to be yeast. so that will put my doc appt back some more since i use d the money iw as saaving fro his doc instead of mine. but i will go see a doc soon
