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rmbrasher
08-24-2008, 07:50 PM
I've been unable to make it to the computer for the past couple weeks, but my baby made it here 8/14/08 at 34 weeks. We're doing fine now! Here's her birth story:

On Sunday (10th) I was feeling kind of lousy - nauseous and weak. I thought it was some bad fish I'd ate at my cousin's wedding the night before. That night I was in terrible pain in my back and my upper abdomen. I was in tears in the middle of the night and I was told by the on-call nurse to take some tylenol and go to bed. Which I did. I relaxed all day Monday and went to the doctor on Tuesday. They did a lot of tests because I had protein in my urine which is one sign of pre-eclampsia. They weren't too worried, though, because my blood pressure was just fine. However, they wanted me to collect my urine for a 24 hour period in a huge jug. Unsure of how I was going to keep that jug at work (that would have been nice in the community fridge!), I went home. I woke up pain again that night. I went to work but ended up going to the doctor because the pain wouldn't go away. The nurse practitioner wasn't too concerned - I forget now what reasons she gave for the pain, but they were silly. A nurse saw me before we left, though, and said I looked terrible. She suggested we go up to the hospital "just in case". So we did. By the time I got there, my blood pressure was 160/90 and rising. That's bad, considering my blood pressure is usually 110/60. They admitted me for observation.
That night I was in so much pain that I was almost climbing up the walls. They kept telling me it was 'heartburn' or 'the baby pushing on my back'. They gave me lortab and a shot of nubane before I finally could go to sleep.
My doctor finally saw me the next morning, and low and behold, when the test results came back, they discovered the pain was from my liver swelling and my kidneys shutting down. Ouch! I later learned I was entering "HELLP Syndrome" which is a form of pre-eclamsia that affects the liver, kidneys, and blood pressure. If not treated immediately, it can lead to coma and death. Treatment is the delivery of the baby.
So, they decided to do a emergency c-section, and Elise made it here at 11:50am, crying and a whole 3lbs 13oz. I passed out soon after she was born. I don't remember much after that.
She did great for such a small baby born at 34 weeks and two days. The NICU doctor said sometimes when a mom's body is in distress, it will speed up the growing process so that the baby will have a better chance of survival. She didn't need oxygen, she did well keeping her body temp, and she did fine digesting milk.
As for me - I didn't fare so well. They started me on a magnesium drip that made me nauseous and like my skin was on fire. I couldn't get out of bed for two days. (which meant no shower for four days straight - yuck!). They tried to control my blood pressure with different medications. The first one caused my heart to race and nose bleeds. I'm now on two different blood pressure meds which are, for the most part, keeping it at a bearable level. Supposedly they will wean me off of them in the next couple months. Until then I keep getting wicked headaches. I wasn't released for almost a week while they tried to get my body under control. I'm doing much better now!
And Elise is doing very well and should be home this week. Yea!
Here's her picture:

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sabrina_the_mommies
08-24-2008, 07:58 PM
Awe Momma :hugs: Glad everyone is safe & healthy! Praying for a speedy recovery for ya!

knoxmama81
08-24-2008, 09:17 PM
Ohhh mama, I'm sorry you have had such a hard time.:hugs: Your LO is beautiful! BTW, I was born at 3 lbs. 14 oz. to a very sick mama and I am healthy and did just fine. :goodvibes:

I hope you are well soon!

Sweet_Fantasy_Fox
08-24-2008, 09:23 PM
Congrats on your beautiful baby girl!
I am sorry you got sick mama, i have too btdt with ym first baby. the mag sulfate burns so bad. they released you before getting your bp under control?:eek:
for me as soon as 24 hours was up, my bo went back to normal, If you continue to get dizzy call your dr:hugs: I hope you start feeling better quickly and your sweet baby gets to come home soon:hugs:

scatterbrainedmomma
08-25-2008, 06:03 AM
Praise the Lord the nurse told you to go to the hospital! What a scary and dangerous situation. I'm so happy you and Elise are going to be fine. She is beautiful! (love, love, love her name, BTW- it was on our list for dd) Your family is in my thoughts and prayers!

lazamo
08-25-2008, 08:31 AM
CONGRATULATIONS! What a triumph! You are so courageous. I'm so happy for you that you both survived such a scary set of circumstances. I guess Elise will be into theatre as her entry was so dramatic.

Gosh, I really hope you recover well and soon. Miss Elise too! You both need a vacation from all the stress.

I love her lovely name too! (It was on my list too but nixed by my DH. I had a friend named Elise who was so smart -she got banned from quiz shows because no one could beat her. So your wee Miss is in good company.)

~Jenn

Madams
08-25-2008, 08:42 AM
so glad to hear you are both alright (even if you are still suffering :( ).. she is just beautiful. happy healing vibes to you and congrats to you and your family on a beautiful healthy girl!

amysconfections
08-25-2008, 09:53 AM
Glad to hear you are good now. Your little girl is beautiful. I'm glad someone finally listened to you. God was watching over both of you through this!