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MayLily79
10-18-2008, 05:43 PM
I'm really upset :cry: I dont know why it is, but I just don't feel PG... I'm bloated, yes, I'm tired, yes, I gag sometimes when I brush my teeth, yes, I have had cramps and low backaches on and off for over a week, yes and my period is over 4 days late and I have had 4 BFP's, but nothing else. I just know that with my first PG I was uber sick @ like 4 weeks and was sick for 3 months. I haven't had any m/s AT ALL. My stomach is bloated, but not hard. If I were to miscarry I would know if it were to happen being that i'm almost 5 weeks now right? I haven't had any spotting or any bad cramps, just mild cramps and backaches. I tell people I'm PG, but in the back of my head I'm like, I think :headscratch: I think I'm just freaking myself out, because I associate pregnancy with barfing, because of my first PG. I don't have an u/s til Nov. 25th. What do you mama's think?

4HisGlory
10-18-2008, 07:32 PM
Ahh..I'm totally the same way.. I keep looking at the positive test just to be sure I wasn't hallucinating. I even had an ulrasound that dated me at around 3-4 weeks on the 8th and I think that made it worse. It was too early to see the hearbeat and even though I know that is normal for 4 weeks i just felt wierd since with all my others the first US i saw a hb. So yes, I have some symptoms ( i Threw up one, super bloated etc) but I don't "feel" pregnant yet either. I have an ultrasound on teh 29th so hopefully that will help!

MayLily79
10-18-2008, 08:23 PM
Ahh..I'm totally the same way.. I keep looking at the positive test just to be sure I wasn't hallucinating. I even had an ulrasound that dated me at around 3-4 weeks on the 8th and I think that made it worse. It was too early to see the hearbeat and even though I know that is normal for 4 weeks i just felt wierd since with all my others the first US i saw a hb. So yes, I have some symptoms ( i Threw up one, super bloated etc) but I don't "feel" pregnant yet either. I have an ultrasound on teh 29th so hopefully that will help!

I know, I can't stand it!!! I'm sooo scared something is wrong with the baby. I forgot to mention that my boobs are kinda sore and my nips are super sensitive. That still doesn't help. I wish I could have an ultrasound... I think it would help, plus I could ask my doctor if everything looks ok... I sh*t you not, I just got done checking my pee stick that I took over a week ago :roflmbo: Thats funny!!! I'm happy you are feeling the same way though it makes me feel like I'm not the only one!!! Thanks for responding mama :hugs: I will sleep better tonight...

mommyof2wildboys
10-18-2008, 10:36 PM
I don't "feel" pregnant either. I have no symptoms. I'm tired, but I'm always tired because I have a really hard time staying asleep. It's nothing new. The only thing is my boobs are tender, other than that, nothing. I had an ultrasound to check on a cyst when I was 4 weeks and they couldn't see anything. Not even a sac, very deppressing.....

But I never felt pregnant with DS#1 either.

LukesMama
10-19-2008, 09:21 AM
I'll join this club too! I've been having zero symptoms except for extreme exhaustion but I have a toddler and I'm a bad sleeper anyways so the exhaustion is constant even pre-pregnancy. It's super frustrating to have NO symptoms!

Leigh179
10-19-2008, 09:28 AM
Hey mama...Im not pregnant yet (hoping to conceive this week though!), but I thought I'd offer my thoughts. I didn't feel pregnant really until like 4 months with dd. Even after I saw the heartbeat. They say that just like every child is different, every pregnancy is different. So you may not have the same symptoms as you did with your first. HTH :hugs: and CONGRATS!!!

MomE2MathU
10-19-2008, 10:44 AM
Try to remain positive and don't compare to your first pregnancy. With my son I also had nausea before I even missed AF but this time it didn't set in until 6 weeks. I was feeling fine until then and it hit me like a truck and has not gone away yet. Hang in there, you never know when that nausea will start. Or maybe you'll get lucky and not have it at all this time.

NorthernMama
10-19-2008, 10:47 AM
No kidding - at 37 weeks, sometimes I still get a wave of not "feeling pregnant". Mind you, now I'm usually sitting at the time, but even this far into it, I still get that feeling from time to time. Don't worry about it - it will come (especially when you start feeling your LO swimming around in there) :thumbsup:

MayLily79
10-19-2008, 12:18 PM
Thanks mama's!!! :hugs: I feel better now! I was hoping there were other mama's experiencing the same thing. I'm still crampy on and off and now I have a yeast infection :yuck: I was soooo tired this morning I didn't get out of bed until about 12pm Luckily DH is home to help with DD!!! Thanks again mama's!!!:goodvibes:

JeDeeLenae
10-19-2008, 12:40 PM
I think you're having a boy. LOL

My first 2 pregnancies were like you described, with tons of issues; spotting, nausea, headaches, cramps, etc. right from the start. This time around, with my DD, nothing like that until almost 10 weeks!! I think I was about 20 weeks when I came to realize I really hadn't miscarried.

angelmama1209
10-19-2008, 02:19 PM
I got m/s with my first at 5 weeks, my second at 6 weeks, and this at 6 weeks 5 days. It seriously just knocked me out about 3 days ago and I am MISERABLE!!!!! Count your blessings!

ReiSapphireJade
10-19-2008, 02:23 PM
I'm due in May, but just wanted to reassure you. I am 12 weeks pregnant and I don't feel a thing! With my last pregnancy I lost 15lbs from morning sickness. This time, nothing. I had a u/s a couple of weeks ago and I honestly thought they were going to say "There's no baby there!" or something along those lines because I just didn't feel pregnant at all. But, nope, there was a little bean, heart beating and all.

Just chalk it up to luck and hope you continue to not feel ill!!!

cakeums
10-19-2008, 04:24 PM
Funny, I am having more obvious symptoms than with DD or any of my other pregnancies and I've been fairly confident so far, but I still can't help but think here and there that maybe it means something is wrong! I just think it's so tough not to worry, especially when your current pregnancy is different from a past one.

MayLily79
10-19-2008, 06:08 PM
I'm due in May, but just wanted to reassure you. I am 12 weeks pregnant and I don't feel a thing! With my last pregnancy I lost 15lbs from morning sickness. This time, nothing. I had a u/s a couple of weeks ago and I honestly thought they were going to say "There's no baby there!" or something along those lines because I just didn't feel pregnant at all. But, nope, there was a little bean, heart beating and all.

Just chalk it up to luck and hope you continue to not feel ill!!!

Thats exactly what I've been thinking!!! I was like I want to do the u/s sound soon, but I'm scared they are going to say theres nothing there! I wont feel better until I get a huge belly and start feeling the baby moving around :blush: It's bitter sweet not having m/s. I'm happy I haven't gotten sick, but sometimes I wish I would just blow chunks a few times to be reassured :giggle2:

xoxCoralxox
10-19-2008, 07:57 PM
Aww Des.

Ill be 4 weeks ish tomorrow. And i dont feel pregnant AT all. Just REALLY tired. But hey i think not feeling anything rather than puking up ur guts is better...I hope i can enjoy this pregnancy. With DD i lost almost 35 - 40 lbs was in the hospital soo much because i couldnt keep anything down. It sucked big time i wasnt able to eat anything without it comming up till about 5months i could eat fruit.... by 7 months i could eat bits of meat... 8 month on the dot i was back to normal.

But then agian you may be sick as a dog one pregnancy and healthy and full of energy the next. Id say give it too about 6/7 weeks preggo youll start felling sickish then :)

MayLily79
10-19-2008, 08:16 PM
Aww Des.

Ill be 4 weeks ish tomorrow. And i dont feel pregnant AT all. Just REALLY tired. But hey i think not feeling anything rather than puking up ur guts is better...I hope i can enjoy this pregnancy. With DD i lost almost 35 - 40 lbs was in the hospital soo much because i couldnt keep anything down. It sucked big time i wasnt able to eat anything without it comming up till about 5months i could eat fruit.... by 7 months i could eat bits of meat... 8 month on the dot i was back to normal.

But then agian you may be sick as a dog one pregnancy and healthy and full of energy the next. Id say give it too about 6/7 weeks preggo youll start felling sickish then :)

I'm hoping! Hey, if this is a no sick, full of energy pregnancy I'll take it! I just want to get the u/s done, so my doc can reassure me everything is a-ok! I'll have to wait til November 25th though :blush: I mean to tell you CONGRATS on your BFP!!!! I was already on this side when you got it! I'm happy for you! Sticky baby vibes for all of us!!!!! :goodvibes:

Mother Lover
10-20-2008, 12:45 PM
I wasn't feeling pregnant either until last week at some time...this weekend was a turning point when I would seriously make note of where the bathroom was where ever we went. I've started feeling crappy and pregnant now.

CrunchyMama0607
10-22-2008, 04:14 PM
Awwww big hugs sweety :hugs: I didn't feel pg for the longest time when pg with DS. Then my nausea kicked in around 7wks and I felt it. Your still really early in your pregnancy and all of them are different so maybe this one will be easier :hugs: I puked all the time in my pg with my dd but not so much with ds. :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

cowangel
10-23-2008, 12:43 PM
I also had a ton of yeast infections while I was preggo with my first (which was a boy), so maybe that's a pregnancy symptom?!

MayLily79
10-24-2008, 08:52 AM
Well I'm now 5 weeks and 5 days PG and I know I'm PG now!!! I've been gagging a lot with funny smells and I am soooooo tired!!! I actually went to have my PG confirmed and had to take another test, it was a BFP of course. I've been lightheaded here and there and just have NO energy! The yeast infection thing is driving me nuts!! I've done 2 treatments now and it's still there. My doc wants me to wait and see if it goes away over the weekend and if not, we need to try something else. Basically what I'm trying to say is... I feel pregnant now :giggle2: 8 more months to go :thumbsup:

4HisGlory
10-24-2008, 09:35 AM
Well I'm not 5 weeks and 5 days PG and I know I'm PG now!!! I've been gagging a lot with funny smells and I am soooooo tired!!! I actually went to have my PG confirmed and had to take another test, it was a BFP of course. I've been lightheaded here and there and just have NO energy! The yeast infection thing is driving me nuts!! I've done 2 treatments now and it's still there. My doc wants me to wait and see if it goes away over the weekend and if not, we need to try something else. Basically what I'm trying to say is... I feel pregnant now :giggle2: 8 more months to go :thumbsup:

LOL.. yea me too..unfornately I have a yeast infection that won't go away and constant nausea and extreme fatigue..OK OK already I'm PG..lol!

MayLily79
10-25-2008, 04:22 PM
LOL.. yea me too..unfornately I have a yeast infection that won't go away and constant nausea and extreme fatigue..OK OK already I'm PG..lol!

:giggle2: I know right?! Today has been the worst day yet! I'm just nauseous (sp?) and could sleep for an eternity! 6 more weeks of the 1st trimester YEAH :yuck:

xoxCoralxox
10-25-2008, 04:53 PM
ahhh Des... im starting to wish i would just throw up lol...

im guessing going off my pregnancy with Avery , ill start getting sick around 11 days missed period. So Halloween. I should start feeling gross. Right now i just feel TIRED... and just blahhhh i gag a bit with smells thats IT.

MayLily79
10-25-2008, 09:10 PM
ahhh Des... im starting to wish i would just throw up lol...

im guessing going off my pregnancy with Avery , ill start getting sick around 11 days missed period. So Halloween. I should start feeling gross. Right now i just feel TIRED... and just blahhhh i gag a bit with smells thats IT.

I'm soooo feeling like sh*t!!! I am tired, nauseous, hungry, lightheaded, headachy, blah, blah and blah!!! I know how you feel, but you really don't want to throw up!!!!:giggle2:

CrunchyMama0607
10-26-2008, 10:11 AM
Well I'm now 5 weeks and 5 days PG and I know I'm PG now!!! I've been gagging a lot with funny smells and I am soooooo tired!!! I actually went to have my PG confirmed and had to take another test, it was a BFP of course. I've been lightheaded here and there and just have NO energy! The yeast infection thing is driving me nuts!! I've done 2 treatments now and it's still there. My doc wants me to wait and see if it goes away over the weekend and if not, we need to try something else. Basically what I'm trying to say is... I feel pregnant now :giggle2: 8 more months to go :thumbsup:

ahhh Des... im starting to wish i would just throw up lol...

im guessing going off my pregnancy with Avery , ill start getting sick around 11 days missed period. So Halloween. I should start feeling gross. Right now i just feel TIRED... and just blahhhh i gag a bit with smells thats IT.


I think ya'll are having BOYS :mrgreen: They make for easier pg [in my experience]