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leighi123
10-24-2008, 05:48 PM
Im not sure where to put this - can someone move it if needed to where ever is best?


I just wanted to let everyone know that if you have a trade with me, I will do my best to follow through with it as soon as I can.
I am having some issues right now - my husband threw me out of the house and is leaving me, so ds and I are living out of my car - I don't have access to any of my stuff in the house right now, my sewing machine or anything, I have no money, no job and no place to live and the shelters wont take us because I wasnt beaten up.
Ive called every 'hotline' I could fine online/in the phonebook, and taked to the police dept but apparantly there is no where I can stay, and no one that can help.

soooo until I figure something out, which might take a while, I will have a hard time doing much of anything - I can use the internet at the library which is where I've been taking ds durring the day so I can still get online.

Im going to try to get into my house on monday to get some things when my husband is supposed to be going to work, Im not sure if that will be possible.

If there is something I am supposed to be sending you, PLEASE send me a quick pm letting me know what it is so that I can try and grab it while Im there to send out.

Please bear with me, Im having a really hard time right now and I really dont know what to do about anything.
Im also pregnant right now but I dont think I can keep this baby because I dont have the resources to care for Levi, let alone handle being pregnant (I get very very sick) and having a new baby on top of all that.
I just dont know what to do right now, but wanted to let people know that Im not trying to flake out, I just am not able to do anything.
Thanks

Update

The baby has gone to a better place, it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do and not a choice I would have wanted to make for my self, but under the circumstances, it would have been worse to put another child through what Levi and I are dealing with.
I put my self in counseling, I found a free place - I hate it and it doesnt help me, even though they are very nice, Im just doing what my family/ex wants to get less bs from them.
My parents will send me $ if I ask (small amounts) but I don't want to ask, I dont want to rely on them. I need to sort my self out and take care of myself now, for Levi.
Im staying with my grandma for now, I feel bad because of the stress I put on her, and the strain with the $. Its hard being here and doing this to her and its hard for me to take care of Levi here because of the way her house is. Its just hard.
I cant get help from welfare programs because I dont have Levi's birth certificate - no one seems to know where it is and it will take weeks to get one from San Bernadino to here. I dont have $17 and i dont have a check to send away for it anyway.
Church hasnt helped, Ive emailed and/or called several, they all say go to the welfare place.
Shelters wont take me either, Ive tried more - I havent been beaten up so too bad for me they cant help.
My ex is staying at the house, I cant afford to live there with no $, so instead of both of us finding a new place, its better for just me/Levi to have to do that. He pays the rent/bills anyway so its only fair that he would stay and I go, otherwise I'd be stuck in a place I couldnt pay for.
He wont talk to me - at all. I NEED to talk to him about certian things,not about me and him, but in general. Its frustrating.
He doesnt care about the baby he lost, he doesnt care about Levi, He doesnt care about me. I think he did once, but is throwing that away, the past 5 yrs means nothing to him and it hurts me that he doesnt even hurt a little - its like it was no big deal and Im stuck with nothing but me and the baby and all the pain.
Im trying and trying to get a job and a place to live - Ive spent hours looking and have come up with nothing. I dont know what to do. Ive got $10 to my name, no gas in the car, Levi broke my cell phone and all of the zillion resources Ive tried havent worked.
Im considering sending Levi to live with my parents so that he will be safe. I just dont know what to do. Im so lost right now

GEM Cloth
10-24-2008, 06:05 PM
Hi mama, you're not supposed to be sending me anything, I just wanted to give you a :bighug:

Hang in there, things will get better although they are pretty horrible right now.

Will you be able to go back home at any point to live, as you mentioned your husband is leaving?

More :bighug: :bighug:

itsymama
10-24-2008, 06:12 PM
I'm so sorry mama !

Have you visited any local churches to see if there is any way they can help ?

hippydippymama
10-24-2008, 06:17 PM
OMG mama, this is so horrible. Can you stay with a friend or relative? I can't believe the shelter would rather you and your DS live in a car. And pregnant on top of that! At any rate your DH should be the one living in HIS car so you and your LO can be safe! This is ridiculous! If you lived near me, I would take you in no questions asked. I'm so sorry! :hugs:

Oh, and I don't have a transaction with you, I just couldn't read this and not say something! I feel awful for you!

leighi123
10-24-2008, 06:42 PM
Thanks guys -

dh kicked me out - he claims that he pays the rent, so its 'his' house, I dont want to argue with him, esp in front of Levi, so I'd rather let him stay there than fight it. He doesnt have a car, so at least I have that (its actually my dad's car anyway), he can walk to work if he has to, its only a couple miles.
Im not going to be able to live there, and I dont really want to. He wont be able to afford to live there if he has to give me any extra money, so I dont think he will be helping me with ANYTHING any more.

He has a lot of issues, and I thought we had worked through them, but I guess not, Im not sure why he has been flipping out on me, but I dont want that around the baby.

Im not a 'church person' at all, so I dont know if they would still help me - I really dont want to be pressured into religious stuff, I dont knwo where any are although Im sure it would be easy to find one.

Unfortunatly, my family lives farrrr away in florida, so they cant help me from there - my dad is in china for work right now too! I have zero friends, in Reno or anywhere else - between the way dh has controlled me, and my social issues (I have aspergers), its hard for me to talk to anyone at all, so online people is the closest I get.

Im just trying to figure it all out so that Levi will be ok, he is all I care about.

hippydippymama
10-24-2008, 06:45 PM
No. Screw that. If he wanted money to live he should hae thought about that before he kicked out his son and his pregnant wife. I don't give a good g-d- who pays the rent, you are an expectant mother and you and your CHILD should not be on the STREET. And Im sure any church would think the same. I doubt they'll quiz you on your religious status before taking you in. I used church services for food and other help int he past and I'm not religious either.

:lemmeathim: I just want to punch your DH in the face. What a sorry excuse of a man he is to do this to you!

abigail
10-24-2008, 06:48 PM
I don't have a trade with you, but I wanted to offer :hugs: and say that although I am not Catholic I do some work with Catholic Charities. If you can find the local one in your county they will help REGARDLESS OF RELIGIOUS PREFERENCE, in fact, they don't even ask. If they can help, they will, simple as that.

ETA: Here ya go!


Agency: Catholic Community Services of Northern Nevada
Address: Diocese of Reno
500 E 4th St
City: Reno
State: NV
ZIP Code: 89512-3316
Phone: (775) 322-7073
Web Site: http://www.ccsnn.org/
Email:

Nikkis_Little_Ladies
10-24-2008, 06:51 PM
I don't have a trade with you, but I wanted to offer :hugs: and say that although I am not Catholic I do some work with Catholic Charities. If you can find the local one in your county they will help REGARDLESS OF RELIGIOUS PREFERENCE, in fact, they don't even ask. If they can help, they will, simple as that.

ETA: Here ya go!


Agency: Catholic Community Services of Northern Nevada
Address: Diocese of Reno
500 E 4th St
City: Reno
State: NV
ZIP Code: 89512-3316
Phone: (775) 322-7073
Web Site: http://www.ccsnn.org/
Email:

I was JUST going to post this exact same thing.

ETA: mama if you need me to I can call the # for you and try to get some info..Just let me know.

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10-24-2008, 06:52 PM
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Jenney17
10-24-2008, 06:52 PM
Mama: Here is a list of shelters for families and PREGNANT women. They are all in Reno. Do not be afraid to go the Catholic Church for help. The catholic church is the 2nd largest social services provider in the US. The 1st is the givt. They do not care what religion you are or aren't.
You need to get that baby under a roof and you need a healthy and safe place. Just go. :hugs:

Families and Pregnant Women
Casa de Vida
406 Elm Street
Reno, NV

Lighthouse of the Sierra
3700 Safe Harbor Way
Reno, NV

Catholic Community Services
St. Vincentís Center
500 East Fourth Street
Reno, NV
(775) 322-7073

Center Street Mission
726 Kuenzli Avenue
Reno, NV

iris0110
10-24-2008, 06:54 PM
are there any pregnancy advocacy centers near you? I hate to recomend them because alot of them are just fronts for extremist groups, but there are good ones out there too. Centers that might be able to help you find a place to live with your LO while you are pregnant at least. Did the shelter know you were pregnant? That your dh is obviously psycologically abusive to you? IS there any way for you to get to Florida to your family? Would they help you if you can? If your family is willing to help you then I say do what you can to get yourself down there. You can't keep living out of your car with a baby.

negrapy
10-24-2008, 06:54 PM
:hugs:
I think a church would help too - you might have to try a couple but all the same - even not being 'religous'

itsymama
10-24-2008, 06:55 PM
Im not a 'church person' at all, so I dont know if they would still help me - I really dont want to be pressured into religious stuff, I dont knwo where any are although Im sure it would be easy to find one.


None of the churches I have ever been part of would turn someone away in this situation simply because they weren't a "church person" , they would help if they could because you and your child need help . As for being pressured into anything , I would hope and doubt that would happen , I think it's worth looking into at least , cause you and your lil one need help during this .

Hope I'm not being pushy or anything , it's just heart breaking that your both going through this :hugs:

mommyz
10-24-2008, 07:00 PM
Mama I think you should call the police and have HIM get *kicked out*... YOU have a child AND you're pregnant. You should NOT BE IN THE STREETS! So what if he pays the bills! That's no excuse mama. Good luck and {{{{{{HUGS}}}} to you!

Leslieann
10-24-2008, 07:02 PM
You can also call the local salvation army they help with these situations or can refer you to someone who can. And you also may find some help at The St Vincent De Paul Society. In my city we have a Volunteers of America Homeless shelter which does have facilities for families. I definitely second the Idea of trying to get to your family if they could provide some help for you and your ds.

ajjulian
10-24-2008, 07:03 PM
Wish I could help out... I live in PA though. I know you said you aren't religious but you are in my prayers. If there is anyway I can help pm me please!! I would love to give you and Levi and the new lo a home. This might be too personal and I am sorry if it is but you mentioned not keeping baby #2 if you are thinking of adoption I know a wonderful fam who would die to take it. Good luck mama.

ouchienurse
10-24-2008, 07:04 PM
I am not a religous person either, but the Catholic Charities I worked with in HS was really good about not preaching to you and that sort of thing. They just help where they can. Any Catholic church can point you in the right direction.:hugs: :hugs: I hope you are ok and tell your hubby if I ever catch him I beating the crap out of him, or better yet I'll let my hubby do it

CarrieMF
10-24-2008, 07:06 PM
Is your name on the lease?

Get a police escort to get your stuff from the house.

clarizmom
10-24-2008, 07:11 PM
Wishin you the best, Mama! Hope one of these organizations can help you and your LO.

MammaBx3!
10-25-2008, 12:13 AM
I'm feel very badly for you, mama. If there is anything that you need when you do get a mailing address, post it on here and I'm sure that you'll get some help!

I'd also go down to Dept. of Health and Welfare ASAP and get emergency food stamps, health insurance, etc... whatever you can get. Good luck.

joshuas_mum
10-25-2008, 06:49 AM
mama you and your ds are in my thoughts. :hugs:
i am nowhere near you but i have a bunch of little boy clothes i can mail out to you if your in need of them.
and you need to get him out that house and you back into it, to hell with the fact he pays the bills!! he kicked his pregnant wife and son out, that man doesnt deserve that house!! :hugs:

*Ashley*
10-28-2008, 09:39 AM
Wow! I just happened to read this while looking for someone else. What a sorry excuse for a human being your DH is! Call the Police if you haven't already (i know this is a little late). They can do a "civil standby" which means they will escort you to your house and will stay there while you get your stuff. No mama pregnant and with a baby should be living in her car. HUGS! I pray that things work out for you.

oitzjustlisa
10-28-2008, 11:16 AM
I think you should call social services. They will side with you since you are pregnant and have a LO with you. He could be severely prosecuted for throwing his child out into the streets, and he should be! Be strong, mama! I hope things get brighter for you, and fast. Have you asked your family for help? If you were my baby I'd be out to Reno ASAP to bring you and my grandbabies home! Or at least making arrangements to get you there in your dad's case.

jenniferjunniper
10-29-2008, 06:29 AM
I am so sorry this is happening to you. I agree with what PP said about the Catholic Charities. In most churches eyes, everyone is a child of God, no matter what they believe, or do not believe. I hope this all gets worked out soon, and that you can find a safe place to be. Good luck to you and to your your little Levi. Jenn

leighi123
10-30-2008, 11:34 PM
updated

JeDeeLenae
10-30-2008, 11:52 PM
I wish I was in a better position to help you out. :hugs:

Reuben Christopher
10-31-2008, 12:20 AM
Oh Leigh:cry: . I was praying that your (gosh he isn't really being a husband is he so I don't know what to call him) :yuck: dh going to rehab would work out for you. I am so sorry (still in love with the mei tai you made me btw). I wish I was close and could help. What a freakin (put every bad word you can think of here)!!! I about cryed when I read that you had to lose your baby mama. It is heartbreaking (I am sure your heart is in peices over the whole thing) and I wish I could help. Is there anything you need? How is Levi on diapers and whatnot? Do you need clothing? Please keep us updated when you can, there are lots of us here willing to help and we want to know you are ok (as ok as you can be right now). Gosh I just want to give you a cup of hot cocoa and tuck you into bed and tell you it will all be ok. Keep you head on straight and Levi and your needs first and it will eventually all be ok. You are lucky mama, you have your son. Some men take away the kids just to be mean. If you marriage is comepletely ending then thank your lucky stars that he doesn't want anything to do with Levi. It is sad for Levi to lose his daddy but with the kind of person he is YOUR son is better off without him. Big huge caring hugs from me mama. I really hope it gets better very soon. Remember. You owe this man nothing and you are you and your sons protector. Don't feel like you need to consider your :yuck: dh's feelings in this at all in respects to who gets what and how much trouble you can get him into. Please pm me or post if you need anything!:hugs:

borja010
10-31-2008, 12:25 AM
PMed you mama

terrismez
10-31-2008, 12:32 AM
Oh mama - I am soooo sorry!!!! My dad lives in Gardnerville, NV (very close to Reno) and I'm in Victorville, CA (very close to San Bernardino), so if there is anything I can do, please PM me or post here!!! Praying for you now!!!

hippydippymama
10-31-2008, 12:43 AM
Oh mama I wish I could help you. My heart is breaking for you. If I were anywhere near you I would personally pay a visit to your DH and relieve him of his undeserved manhood myself, and then I would take in you and your LO and we would work this out. THis is just so awful, and although I'm not a praying mama I will be praying for you and Levi! :hugs:

JeDeeLenae
10-31-2008, 01:00 AM
If you can find a way to cover shipping, I have some 18 mos and 2T clothes that DS can't fit that I can send to you. LMK if you're interested and I'll go through the stuff I have. I was getting ready to drop it off at the Safe Nest drop box.

dragondance
10-31-2008, 09:33 AM
Check the phone book for legal aide/pro bono lawyers. You'll be doing a lot better if you can get this finalized so he is paying child and spousal support!! Also, do you have anyone to watch Levi so you could even get a job at a store or a restaurant? Some income is better than none. For food you can check out http://www.angelfoodministries.com/about/ as well as local programs like food stamps, etc, since you have little/no income right now.

mikoto127
11-01-2008, 10:38 AM
:hugs:

Primm_n_Proper_Baby
11-01-2008, 11:37 AM
:hugs: momma. I'm so sorry! It looks like others have already directed you to the Catholic church, so I won't go into too much details. I've worked in the childcare portion of the Diocese. We had shelters/family shelters where many of our families stayed while they worked to get back on thier feet. We also had job training, food assistance, clothing banks... it was SO helpful to families in your situation momma...call them!!! They did expect people to work/do job training in order to stay in the program I was in. Most moms did 4-5 hours of job training for 6 weeks and then had a few weeks (with HELP) finding a job locally. Most of the moms didn't even have to work full time to stay in the program (keep thier housing/childcare/etc.)
If you can't figure out the BirthCert $$$, pm me. Really.

fallon
11-01-2008, 11:44 AM
((HUGS)) mama

4smartmonkeys
11-01-2008, 12:14 PM
I am very sorry to hear of your situation. We are in a trade...but do not worry about it. I wouldn't think of making you get my stuff...when you have soooo much going on. When you get an address, I will send you the hat....Levi will need a hat for the winter. I wish I could help you out more. I know what it's like to be kicked out by the father of your child, and I know there is not much you can do. If you are on the lease....you have every right to get your stuff and Levi's. If you aren't, you have to prove you lived there....bills, driver's license, etc.
I am not a member of any church either, but I know they can help you out.
Try going to your local domestic relations, so you can get child support. Try local food shelters and WIC for food.
PM me if you would like to talk...I wish you and Levi the best and hope your situation improves soon.

Rebecca

PhM
11-01-2008, 10:27 PM
Do not worry about the trade. I'm just glad you have the bloak to help right now. BIG HUGE HUGS

mommyof3monsters
11-03-2008, 12:23 AM
*hugs* I was going to post I wont be on much if at all ... however if you want PM me , I'll try and check atleast once a day if I can. I have some friends in reno and close by as well as family(thats my stompin grounds) and if there is anything you need ....

mugsywebb
11-03-2008, 12:32 AM
*hugs*
I am so sorry your *** of an ex did that. he has no right, especially since you are the one with the child. A church will not quiz you on your religion, you really cannot live out of your car and be too proud to ask for help from your parents.
could you not go back home with them in FL? At least then you can search for a job there and be near your family, and near your son.

Planet9Creations
11-03-2008, 06:22 AM
dh kicked me out - he claims that he pays the rent, so its 'his' house, I dont want to argue with him, esp in front of Levi, so I'd rather let him stay there than fight it.

between the way dh has controlled me, and my social issues (I have aspergers), its hard for me to talk to anyone at all, so online people is the closest I get.



I don't know you or your situation, just what I've read up to this post in this thread. So bare with me if I am way off base. BUT, you shoudl be aware that domestic abuse is A LOT more than just getting b eat up. Controlling you, is a pretty good sign of emotional and verbal abuse which COUNTS the same as physical abuse. I live right next door to a domestic violence shelter, same one my mom graduated from 2 years ago (stupid 3rd Dh was mentally unstable and scary) my mom goes back there once a week for a survivors meeting and takes my DD with her so she can learn early this stuff not ok. Anyways, I think you need to call those shelters back and demand they do a face to face interview with you. I understand the AS gets in the way (my dh and oldest are on the spectrum) of communication, so try writing yourself a list of important points, so you can prompt yourself. Sit down and think about all the times he's done things that limited your ability to do whats best for yourself and DS, all the times he's said things that just feels wrong. I know that will be hard for you, as some of the inappropriate things he may have said and done may not have stuck out to YOU as inappropriate. If there is anyone around you that has seen you two together at all, you may want to ask them if they saw anything they felt was inappropriate on your DH's part and sent up red flags for them.

Another idea is they HAVE to have straight up homeless shelters somewhere around you. Not to mention programs for adults with disabilities. To bad your not in Ohio. You'd be well cared for here in your situation. Social Services here rock, which is why I moved my kids here even though Dh had to stay back in OK for work.

I wonder, if you were able to somehow get to FL would that help your situation at all?


Anywho, I'm worried for you hun so please if there is anything I can do to help PM me.

Planet9Creations
11-03-2008, 06:30 AM
dh kicked me out - he claims that he pays the rent, so its 'his' house, I dont want to argue with him, esp in front of Levi, so I'd rather let him stay there than fight it.

between the way dh has controlled me, and my social issues (I have aspergers), its hard for me to talk to anyone at all, so online people is the closest I get.



I don't know you or your situation, just what I've read up to this post in this thread. So bare with me if I am way off base. BUT, you should be aware that domestic abuse is A LOT more than just getting beat up. Controlling you, is a pretty good sign of emotional and verbal abuse which COUNTS the same as physical abuse. Good fair men don't toss pg wife and baby out on the streets. He owes you child support at least and I don't care if HE ends up sleeping in the park, him in a nice warm house while you live in your car/grandma's is unacceptable. I live right next door to a domestic violence shelter, same one my mom graduated from 2 years ago (stupid 3rd Dh was mentally unstable and scary) my mom goes back there once a week for a survivors meeting and takes my DD with her so she can learn early this stuff is not ok.

Anyways, I think you need to call those shelters back and demand they do a face to face interview with you. I understand the AS gets in the way (my dh and oldest are on the spectrum) of communication, so try writing yourself a list of important points, so you can prompt yourself. Sit down and think about all the times he's done things that limited your ability to do whats best for yourself and DS, all the times he's said things that just feels wrong. I know that will be hard for you, as some of the inappropriate things he may have said and done may not have stuck out to YOU as inappropriate. If there is anyone around you that has seen you two together at all, you may want to ask them if they saw anything they felt was inappropriate on your DH's part and sent up red flags for them. They shelter can't turn you away if you tell them you have been emotionally and verbally abused. I can send you pamphlets from next door that explain as much.

Another idea is they HAVE to have straight up homeless shelters somewhere around you. Family's with small children get nicer accommodations and help getting back out on their own a lot faster. Not to mention programs for adults with disabilities. To bad your not in Ohio. You'd be well cared for here in your situation. Social Services here rock, which is why I moved my kids here even though Dh had to stay back in OK for work. I'd be happy to go into more details in PM or email.

I wonder, if you were able to somehow get to FL would that help your situation at all? Idea cooking up in my head.


Anywho, I'm worried for you hun so please, if there is anything I can do to help PM me.

4smartmonkeys
11-03-2008, 07:16 AM
I agree with the pp, you need to get a one on one with shelters, women's centers, domestic abuse, domestic relations and assistance places. They can't possibly let you and your little son stay in the car.
Your ex has to be accountable.
I really think you should find a way to go to FL and be with family.
I wish you all the best and hope you get some help!!

beenwaitingalongtime
11-04-2008, 08:34 PM
Just a thought--are you receiving SSI for the AS? If not, can you get to the SSA and apply? It'd be SOMETHING to at least keep you all fed till you get a roof over your heads :(

If you can prove it affects your ability to get/maintain a job, it's def. possible: http://www.disabilitysecrets.com/conditions-page-1-16.html

suthrnmomto3
11-24-2008, 09:52 PM
just read this and my heart just broke...has anyone heard from this momma? is she okay? does she have all she needs for her and ds? my heart breaks for her and her levi and little angel

leighi123
12-09-2008, 12:57 PM
update -
still working on finding a job/place to live, its a lot harder than I thought! I have to find the job first so I can afford a place to stay, but its hard to find a job without a home.
Anyway, until the 16th Im visiting my parents here in florida, a week after I get back they will be in tahoe visiting, so Im ok for a little while but I dont have the $ to give Levi a christmas.
While Im here I have a sewing machine to use so Im trying to get some of my stuff sold so I can get a few things for Levi, if you are shopping for xmas gifts please take a look at what I have! The link is in my siggy
Thanks for everyone's help and support.

import_the_best
12-10-2008, 09:44 AM
update -
still working on finding a job/place to live, its a lot harder than I thought! I have to find the job first so I can afford a place to stay, but its hard to find a job without a home.
Anyway, until the 16th Im visiting my parents here in florida, a week after I get back they will be in tahoe visiting, so Im ok for a little while but I dont have the $ to give Levi a christmas.
While Im here I have a sewing machine to use so Im trying to get some of my stuff sold so I can get a few things for Levi, if you are shopping for xmas gifts please take a look at what I have! The link is in my siggy
Thanks for everyone's help and support.

PLEASE PM me mama. PM me with little Levi's age and size clothing that he wears. And send me the address where i can mail things. PLEASE. I was going to have a yard sale with some of the stuff my DS used a few years ago, but i have plenty so i can definately send you something, as well and maybe some toiletries and maybe even a few surprise christmas presents for little Levi too. Do you have a walmart near you, so that if i send you a little GC you can buy yourself a few clothing items too, it's won't be much, but if you find some things on the sale rack it will at least get you a couple things.:hugs: :pray: for both of your and you new little angel.

It'll take me a couple days to get things for you into a box so take that into account if you're leaving that current address soon. PLEASE mama, PLEASE let me do what i can to help you right now. It won't be that much, but i hope it'll help.:please:

sherry00-1
12-14-2008, 05:48 PM
I hope you have found a job I used to talk with you on the old bbc cloth diapers for dummies, I am so sad to here about this. let me know if there's anything I and Aiden can do for you.