I am so thrilled for all our coming soon September babies!
I am so sad that it did not happen for us this month, being due on DH's birthday would have been SO cool!
I have never seen so many BFP's at once! :lostit:
beckstar
01-16-2009, 10:22 AM
well, ive noticed each month they come in a big rush...so maybe next month you'll be in the pack.
im sorry you're sad, love. its bittersweet watching other mamas get pregnant when you're trying so hard. you'll get yours.
earthmamatobe
01-16-2009, 10:30 AM
Becky I LOVE your kids names!
~Ashley~
01-16-2009, 10:54 AM
maybe next month will be ur month. i so thought this was my month, but then stupid AF showed up.
daisy0306
01-16-2009, 10:57 AM
:hugs: :hugs:
crystalannski
01-16-2009, 12:22 PM
It is exciting (but also somewhat lonely feeling) to see all the BFPs on here! I especially love it when one of "ours" gets to move on!!! :mrgreen:
sweetpeaboutique
01-16-2009, 02:32 PM
:bighug:
mclaybrook
01-16-2009, 02:36 PM
Maybe next month will be our month :goodvibes:
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
~mypreciousbabies~
01-16-2009, 03:06 PM
:hug:
canadianbakers
01-17-2009, 08:04 AM
:hugs:
I keep seeing bfp's that are lighter or look the same as the bfp I got last month (ended as chemical pregnancy). I keep thinking - it's just not fair. How can these mamas be getting bfp's, even earlier than I had been, and have everything fine when I lost our baby.
I know, self-pitying, not helping things. And I know it hasn't been near as long for us as most mamas on here, but it sure seems like a long time when it hasn't ever happened like this before.
Would it count as secondary infertility (though I wouldn't say technically infertility until after a year + of trying) if it's not the 2nd child? :headscratch: That's a dumb question, I'm sure.
crystalannski
01-17-2009, 10:48 AM
Yes it can be secondary infertility even if its not your second child. I'm not totally familiar with it but I think it just means someone that was once fertile but since has had trouble conceiving. There was a mama on here trying for her third and she had secondary infertility... she also tried for just under a year too, so I don't know the exact definition but maybe something you ought to look into.
JaylasMommy
01-17-2009, 11:14 AM
:hugs: This feeling sucks.
While I am so happy, and so thrilled for every person getting a BFP, it just sparks more feelings of failure in me. And, each month that passes, and there is a surge of BFPs, the feelings get stronger and stronger.
HIJACK WARNING... Lol.
Secondary infertility is defined as the struggle to conceive after having previous children. And, I would think that your doctor would be the best bet as to finding out what the statutes are for this. Because, even though infertility is defined as trying for a year with no results, some people go before, and their doctors may say otherwise. But, that is a whole other rant for me :giggle:
