My husband and I have a wonderful little girl who is 1, and we are TTC #2 but we are having a hard time and like evryone everytime the test is negative a little piece of me dies inside. DD was a total suprise and actually a huge fluke because my husband was only home one day that whole month, now I can't get pregnant trying all the time. I just want it to be easy but life isn't easy I guess. Today is ruff because today was ANOTHER negative test :(
11-19-2009, 07:20 AM
big hugs. How long have you been ttc?
11-19-2009, 10:46 AM
months now...I am trying not to count because it makes it worse...but everyday I pray I am sapposed to have another one because our first is such an amazing blessing
11-19-2009, 10:53 AM
11-19-2009, 10:58 AM
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: I had a friend like that. She just got her second bfp after I think 9 months of trying this time around. It can happen!! But it is so hard month after month getting negatives.
11-19-2009, 12:59 PM
hang in there. It can take a normal healthy couple up to 12 months to get pregnant. I know it is frustrating...we are on month 14, and although we have been pregnant 2ce you can see in my siggy it's not ending well. Maybe join the ATTS ladies as many of them are about where you are in your ttc journey.
11-22-2009, 05:10 PM
hugs to you :hugs:
12-11-2009, 01:02 PM
:bighug: There are three years between my first 2 and no BC and trying and the docs telling me you got preg before, your young and then sending me out the door. My first was a totally blessed surprise too. So then I had why so easy now can't and everyone telling me oh well. Hang in there mama, I know it is discouraging.
12-27-2009, 11:13 PM
Maybe your body hasn't totally reset itself- like it's soon enough after your first that your body isn't ready to do it again so it's not letting you get pregnant. I'm not sure if that's even helpful at all, but it was just something I thought of. It can sometimes take the body years to recover, and maybe that's just your normal cycle- like having to wait 28 days for a period.