Im calling my dr (of course he doesnt open for another 45min!) but I had a pinkish mucus look in my undies this morning when i woke up and was kind of crampy.........No good at all! Plz pray i dont want anything to happen to this baby.
GrowingUpMad
05-26-2006, 07:04 AM
:hugs: Hugs mama. How far along are you? Pink is much better than red and I have had that happen to me during pregnancies before and all my babies have been born healthy. Good luck at the docs and I'll say a prayer for you and the babe.
Jemgirl
05-26-2006, 07:08 AM
big :hugs:
thinking of ya!
bfoster2000
05-26-2006, 07:37 AM
How far along are you? Try to relax...it is possible to lose your mucous plug and have it grow back during the pregnancy. :goodvibes: :goodvibes:
Kimmomy2dom
05-26-2006, 07:51 AM
Hmmm, yeah I agree pink is better than red. I had some darker red tinged mucous once but it was after intercourse so I think that's what happened there. There are always lots of little things that can make it do that, try not to worry too much until you talk to your Dr.! :hugs:
CMamma
05-26-2006, 08:17 AM
:hugs:
How far along are you? Bleeding pinkish can be normal in any pregnancy... could be from sex, a pelvic exam or just no reason... I had that happen sometimes. I even had a lot of actual blood & still, DS was born healthy & just fine. :)
GL, prayers for you! Please update us!
findingmyself
05-26-2006, 08:59 AM
Ok i called at 9 he said to come on in. I went in and not good. The baby wasnt developed properly and its heart wasnt beating either. He said that it didnt get developed passed 13 wks. So he is gave me some meds just incase i begin contracting. , so i am at a serious serious loss. This was my second miscarriage like this, i dont talk about it much because i feel mainly it is my fault for something stupid i did when i was a teenager. Now i just have to break it to my husband, thats going to be the hard part. I think im gonna go lay down and watch a little tv, might play around on the laptop a bit but i might not be on much today this is a HUGE shocker.:cry:
stephdpn
05-26-2006, 09:03 AM
:hugs: :hugs: So sorry mama - take care of yourself and know we are thinking of you!
Catrinau
05-26-2006, 09:04 AM
OMG! I'm so sorry Krissie!! :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
You know my email if you need to talk. I'm so sorry hun. :hugs: :hugs:
Kimmomy2dom
05-26-2006, 09:05 AM
:hugs: I'm so sorry.
Namaste
05-26-2006, 09:08 AM
It's not your fault. No matter what happened as a teenager, it is not your fault. It is nature and it sucks.
Many hugs and thoughts to you.
canadiannancy
05-26-2006, 09:21 AM
So sorry for your loss. I have had 2 miscarriages, and it is easier said then done...BUT DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF! :hugs: :pray:
keegans_mommy
05-26-2006, 09:24 AM
:hugs: Oh I am so sorry to hear that :hugs: I know it's hard to NOT blame yourself but you really can't do that as I am sure you had nothing to do with it. Take care of yourself, take it easy for awhile. :hugs:
lovemygirls
05-26-2006, 09:29 AM
I am so sorry! :hugs:
findingmyself
05-26-2006, 09:46 AM
I had an abortion when i was a teenager because i was raped. I didnt want to keep the baby i wasnt even out of high school and really didnt have my head in the right place so i feel when something like this happens its my fault.
I feel horrible now that I have both my girls that i let that little one go like i did but i was young and stupid. I now realizse someone else could have given that baby a great life, but its all in the past. I know this is what was meant to be but why does it hurt so much. He also gave me some ambien and my dad is on his way to get the girls so they will stay there tonight and i will take an ambien this afternoon and rest a bit........
thanks for the hugs i just want it over with.
Shay
05-26-2006, 09:54 AM
I'm so sorry for you loss. MC is a horrible thing to go through. It's not your fault no matter what you did in the past. I will be praying for you.:pray:
raversangel
05-26-2006, 10:04 AM
:yeahthat: :hugs: reguardless of the choices you made mama it is NEVER your fault for a mc!! :hugs:
Abunchofus
05-26-2006, 10:13 AM
Oh krissie - my heart hurts for you! I'm praying for you - praying that you are released of that guilt. You are an adult now and your decisions in the past are the past and God knows your heart and He loves you! I'm praying for you and your family!
findingmyself
05-26-2006, 10:21 AM
thanks mamas........coming off and on the laptop has taken my mind off it a bit. Dh is coming home around 3 he is in winston salem so its as fast as he can get here. I feel like crud so i think im gonna just relax and try to take my mind off it all.
Shannon
05-26-2006, 11:12 AM
I'm sorry for your loss(((HUGS)))
GrowingUpMad
05-26-2006, 02:33 PM
:hugs: I am so sorry that you are going through this. What happened in the past is just that and has nothing to do with what is going on now. Please don't feel guilty for something that is not your fault. My thoughts and prayers are with you :hugs:
*~Mindy~*
05-26-2006, 03:00 PM
:bighug: i will pray for you and i know god can show you strength through this!! i hope that it is easy for you physically and you have peace emotionally :hugs:
1bigfamily
05-26-2006, 06:10 PM
:hugs: Oh I am so sorry to hear that :hugs: I know it's hard to NOT blame yourself but you really can't do that as I am sure you had nothing to do with it. Take care of yourself, take it easy for awhile. :hugs:
:yeahthat: I hope you really start to believe that you aren't being punished for something that you did in the past. :hugs:
Shannon
05-26-2006, 06:20 PM
How many weeks along were you? When was the last time you went to the DR? I thought you were quite a bit further than 13 weeks(since you were about 4 weeks ahead of me and I'm 12 now)... I'm wondering if the Dr couldn't have caught something earlier...depending on how long ago you went to the Dr.
Kylie&Logan'sMommy
05-26-2006, 06:29 PM
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
SerenitysBowtique
05-26-2006, 07:36 PM
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
MamaZ
05-26-2006, 10:14 PM
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
reanne1000
05-27-2006, 12:43 PM
I am so sorry! I just lost a baby in April at 10 weeks, if you need to talk please email me, take it easy and know it wasnt your fault!
Luv2bemommy
05-27-2006, 12:53 PM
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
mommyof2girls
05-27-2006, 02:24 PM
I'm sorry for your loss.
I don't think your past decisions had anything do with your losses.
My mom has had about 2-3 abortions, 1 D&C and one stillbirth. And she still went on to have kids!
If you doc said that the baby wasn't developed properly, then it was a chromosonal thing...NOT you or what happened in the past!
I hope you feel better soon! Take some time for yourself, and let yourself greive. Major hugs for ya!!!
