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Bluerosesmagick 07-27-2011 08:29 PM

Lost #4 :(
Recently hubby and I decided to try for #4. Crazy I know but we were so excited to try for another one. Needless to say on July 1, 3 months in, I lost the baby :cry:
We are devastated. This is my second miscarriage now im not sure if we want to try to have another one now or later on. Obviously I need to let my body heal. Just saying I am not sure when we should start again. Such a hard hit :(

Just wanted to vent a little...

Miles 07-27-2011 08:33 PM

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(((HUGS))) I know it wont make any difference how you feel, but your not alone. It took us several yrs to TTC our middle daughter. I miscarried when I was almost 2 mos along, had several chemicals after that. Was told it was due to my weight to stop TTC and Id get pg. Im sorry hun.

nrsnit 07-27-2011 08:36 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear this. My husband and I miscarried our identical twin girls almost 6 months into the pregancy. We had to get them cremated and it was a roller coaster of emotions and fear. Five months later, we got the ok to try again and we have our one daughter. We would have loved a sibling for her but since I was a high risk, my OB said no -- not good to try again.

What does your OB think about trying yet again? I'm so sorry for your angel baby.

emeyer76 07-28-2011 07:17 AM

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:hugs: I'm so sorry mama.

Ten 07-29-2011 11:44 AM

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I'm so sorry, mama. :bighug:

Our daughter left us after 32 weeks in the womb, and there's not a day goes by that I don't miss her terribly. I'm not sure there's a perfect or right time to try again, emotionally - just go by what feels "right" (which is horribly vague, I know) and give yourself time to grieve and heal. Sometimes TTC helps that, and sometimes it doesn't - and either one is perfectly normal and okay.

Wishing you peace.

Wanderlust 07-29-2011 12:37 PM

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I'm sorry. That really stinks- vent away, we're hear to listen and hurt with you

sasra_nu 07-29-2011 05:14 PM

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I'm so sorry for your loss mama :hugs:

I think you will know when the time is right to try again. You are certainly entitled to wait awhile, heal your heart a bit, and try again only when and if you are ready.

I miscarried at 11 weeks on 6/27/11 and it is the hardest thing I have ever gone through (still going through). I know your heartache all too well. :hugs:

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