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amyltc 02-06-2013 12:54 AM

Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
This thread is for women that have children who are trying to have more and struggling with infertility (IF). You fall into the IF category if you have been trying for more than a year or if you have known fertility issues. Some have secondary IF and some have primary IF. Some of us are TTC naturally and some need treatments of some type. All are welcome!

We also have women who are praying to make it. Due to prior losses or IF they don't feel like they should join a due date board till after the first 12 weeks. We are truly happy to support you as you transition. Please just keep in mind that we are a group of woman struggling with IF and be sensitive to that as you post. If you put a pregnancy ticker or smiley in your signature, please turn off your signature when you post in this thread. Thank you!

Please note: When your information needs to be updated, please highlight the area that needs to be updated. This will make it easier for me to update you. :goodvibes:

If you'd like to be added please post your info using the format below. Please note: I remove names if you are inactive for one month. This really helps keep the list more manageable, if you would like to be added back, just repost your info. :D

Women TTC: :ttc: :noaf:

Screen name (Real Name): hokoonchi (Camilla)
Age: Me - 30 (turning 31 soon)/DH - 36 (37 soon)
Children and ages: Sam, 2 years old, potty training (!)
Losses: six weeks, 12/10
Diagnosis: Endometriosis on right ovary, dermoid tumor on left ovary, vulvodynia. Surgery 2/12. Birth control for five months to heal and regulate cycles.
Treatments now: Evening primrose oil
Cycles TTC another: 1.5 years (on and off of birth control due to doctor's orders) trying to conceive a second.
Next appointment: None at this time. Will be seeing a doctor about my fertility if something doesn't happen in the next six months. Will likely pursue IUI.

Screen Name (Real Name): Millermyer2 (Laura)
Age: 29, DH is 28
Current Children and age: Miller (1-29-09) & Myer (10-12-10)
Lost Children and dates: CP - 2008
Diagnosis: none
Treatment: none
Next appointment: March for my yearly(hopefully we will get some answers then!)
Cycles TTC another: 14 cycles

Screen Name (Real Name): craigwick (Heidi)
Age: 32, DH is 37
Current Children and age: DD1 (6) & DD2 (4)
Lost Children and dates: 2 CP - 10/08, 02/12
Diagnosis: none
Treatment: none
Next appointment: need to make one!
Cycles TTC another: 13

Screen Name (Real Name): amyltc (Amy)
Age: 29 my Dh is 33
Current Children and age: DD1 Allie, age 6, DD2 Hannah age 4
Lost Children and dates: 7 weeks, 12/7/12
Diagnosis: Endometriosis, surgery to remove 9/14/10, mostly unexplained infertility
Treatment: 100 mg clomid, Femara and IUI
Next appointment: day 12 when my cycle returns
Cycles TTC another: about 3.5 years

Screen name: twinmomstl (Real Name): Ashley
Age: 28, DH 31
Children and ages: Identical twins Gavin and Dominick (Aug. 2008)
Losses:
Diagnosis: anovulation (I'm thinking PCOS but I don't have enough cysts for them to call it that)
Treatment: Starting Clomid next cycle
Next Appt: January
Cycles TTC another: Since Dec. 2010

Screen name: MyGlorylife (Real Name): Minda
Age: 33, dh is 36
Children and ages: 10 kids, 7 natural born, 3 step: dd13, dd11 1/2, ds10 1/2, dd 10, ds 9, dd8, ds7, ds5 1/2, ds almost 4, ds 2
Losses: 9/98 5 wks, 10/98 7 weeks, 05/2000 twins 1 at 10 weeks and one at 12, 04/04 twins 1 at 9 weeks, 1 at 11 weeks, 8/2008 DS's twin at 4 months (but scan showed twin had dies around 10 weeks), 7/2012 4weeks
Diagnosis: Currently TTC post V-Reversal that was done in 6/2012, 7 yrs after V was originally done.
Cycles TTC another: 5 months this including the mc in july

Screen name: KotzurK (Real Name): Kelsie
Age: 29, DH 28
Children and ages: Noah (Dec 2007)
Losses: Sept 06 twins 8 weeks, Feb 11 molar twins 8 weeks, Aug 12 triplets 10 weeks (Also lost DS's twin at 16 weeks)
Diagnosis: PCOS, cervical cancer (in remission) and male factor
Treatment: Injections (Bravelle and Menopur) Ovidrel and IUI
Next Appt: Tomorrow. Another baseline ultrasound and labs
Cycles TTC another: Since Sept 2010, including losses

Screen name: ChihuahuaMama13 (Real Name): Samantha
Age: 26, DF 28
Children and ages: Gabe (Jan 2011)
Losses: none
Diagnosis: Possible PCOS, otherwise unexplained
Treatment: On 1000mg/day Metformin, and trying Bona Dea; tried Soy Iso (made cycles about 2 weeks longer) and B6 with no results
Next Appt: First fertility specialist appt is November 12th at 3pm
Cycles TTC another: Since April 2011

Screen Name (Real Name): Carriek38 (Carrie)
Age: 33, soon to be 34
Current Children and age: Elliott, 2.5yrs
Losses: 02/12 CP, 05/12 6wks, 10/12 CP
Diagnosis: no known fertility issues, same-sex couple
Treatment and meds: Gonal F, Lupron, trigger shots, IUIx5
Next Appointment: Unknown...moving on to IVF

Screen Name (Real Name): Hope4More (Mel)
Age: 32
Current Children and age: Jake, 2 years old
Losses: 10/19/12 8w0d
Diagnosis: PCOS, was told at 14 years old I would never have children, I do not ovualte EVER without intervention
Treatment and meds: DCI, Vitex, inositol, progesterone
Next Appointment: November 5 or 6, follow up for D&C.

Screen name (Real Name): SlyFoxy (Robin)
Age: me- 41 ,hubby-48 Happily married 20 years
Children and ages: 2 girls 14 years old & other soon be 2 yrs old took 12 years to get our 2nd
Losses: None
Diagnosis: DH did have LSC but after 25mg Clomid they are prefect now. Me- Endometriosis, surgery remove mild endometriosis in 6/2010. Got pregnant after had endometriosis removed in 2010 Endometriosis surgery plus others thing done had mild endo removed 10/23/12
Treatments now:5mg Femara 3-7/ Clomid then start opk testing, BD'ng CD13 ultrasound to check follies then IUI when get peak on CBFM.
Cycles TTC another: Soon 2 yr TTC#3
Next appointment: 1/11/2013 for ultrasound to check follies

Screen name (Real Name): Itsajoi (Jena)
Age: me - 25, hubby - 25
Children and ages: boy, 27 months
Losses: may 2012
Diagnosis: none yet...
Treatment: nada
Next Appt: the 24th of this month
Cycles TTC another: since summer 2011...about 14 or 15 cycles

Screen name (Real Name): Melmonkey (Mel)
Age: me - 34, hubby - 35
Children and ages: girl almost 18 months
Losses: Sept 5 2012
Diagnosis: unexplained
Treatment: Clomid 50mg cd 3-7
Next Appt: don't have one, hopefully in the next few months we'll be doing OB/Gyn appts again!
Cycles TTC another: AF showed Dec 2010....we have not prevented since then....

Screen Name (Real Name):lalakiwi7 (Liesl - pronounced leesal)
Age (SO): 27 and hubby is 27, Happily married for 7 yrs. Together for 12.
Current Children and age: Noah is our oldest miracle man, adopted- 6yrs old. Frances is our first born who is 3.
Lost child: early losses 7/2011 & 11/2007 and DS-Haven (12 weeks) 7/2012
Diagnosis: Stage four endometriosis. Re-occuring losses. 2ndary infertility
Treatment and meds: ASA, MV, Decadron, Femera, HCG trigger, Progesterone post O and Lovenox with BFP
Next Appointment: Will be a follie scan CD 12 once I start AF again.
TTC: Since Francy was a baby... almost three years.

Screen name: kricket24 (Real Name): Kristen
Age: 30
Children and ages: (DS#1) Dakota 04/04/2003 and (DS#2) Colton 06/04/2009
Losses: Identical Twins, May 1, 2008. I was 9 weeks along, DH and I believe they would have been baby girls.
Diagnosis: Unexplained Secondary Infertility (I believe it's a progesterone/ovulation issue)
Treatment: Hoping to do IVF in Oct/Nov! For now I'm taking prenatals, B-Complex & Omega 3's.
Next Appt: Seeing an RE for our first IVF appt tomorrow night! 9/27 @ 6pm
Cycles TTC another: No birth control since DS #2 was born, started TTC a little over a year ago.

Screen name (Real Name): QuicksilverNHS (Marie)
Age: me - 28, DH - 29
Children and ages: 1DS-3y
Losses: Chemical in 2007. 12 week loss in 2008. Chemical in 2010. 15w loss in 2011. 23 week micropreemie live-birth/loss in Oct 2011. 9 week loss in 2012.
Diagnosis: unexplained---tests all "normal"
Treatment: 200mg Endometrin suppository (100mg 2x/day), baby aspirin, extra folic acid and B6.
Next Appt: Pending approval with MFM. Hopefully by Oct 1.
Cycles TTC another: 1. DH came home from deployment and 3.5 weeks later, I got my BFP. We have ZERO problems getting pregnant...its staying that way that doesn't work well at all.

Name: flynnsmom/ Lilo (real name)
Age:30
Current children: 3 year old DS
Losses: I think several very early MCs
Diagnosis: none yet
Next apt: none yet
Cycles TTC: on and off for 3 years as frustration permits. During an 8 yr. marriage have only prevented 6 months

Screen Name (Real Name): School123 (Lizzie)
Age: 35 my Dh is 36
Current Children and age: DD1 11, DS1 age 8, DS2 age 2.5
Lost Children and dates: 9 mc
Diagnosis: secondary infertility, unexplained
Next appointment: None
Cycles TTC another: too long, then decided we were done, then surprise +HPT, then another mc

Screen Name (Real Name): meeshkasheeba (Tina)
Age: 28 (DH 28)
Current Children and age: DS1 6 DS2 3
Lost Children and Dates: 8 Wk Miscarriage Jan, '07
Diagnosis: stage IV endometriosis, adenomyosis, and PCOS
Treatment and meds: multiple surgeries, Lupron (COMPLETE!), metformin, gluten free diet, and a slew of vitamins
Next Apt: April if no BFP to discuss IVF
Cycles Trying: 29 (counting my 6mo of Lupron TX)

Screen Name (Real Name): jacquelinemarie82 (Jacqueline)
Age: 30
Current Children and age: Jasmine, 2 years old (2/10/2010)
Lost Children and Dates: N/A
Diagnosis: male infertility
Treatment and meds: Clomid / IUI cycle #3
Next Appointment: Currently in 2ww
Cycles TTC another:

Screen Name (Real Name): carlaross (Carla)
Age: 36, DH 39
Current children and ages: Zach 17, Jarrod 16, Griffin 2 (12-28-09)
Diagnosis: DH had vasectomy '99 (previous marriage), reversal 3/09. Immediately (9 days after surgery) and had my LO 12-28-09. Never used birth control, began TTC another immediately after 1st PPAF, 8/10. After 15 cycles, we began a fertility workup and were devastated to find out he has complete scarring of the reversal site and a zero sperm count. :(
Cycles TTC another: since Aug 2010
Next appointment: January 9 (with my ob/gyn to begin my fertility workup and discuss options)


Screen Name (Real Name): slimy72 (Laurel)
Age: 30 Dh 32
Current Children and age: DS 4 1/2yo
Lost Children and Dates: 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, Sept. 2011, Sept. 2012
Diagnosis: Endometriosis, do not ovulate regularly. Dh- MS, Celiacs, Ulcerative colitis.
Treatment and meds: Clomid, provera, prometrium, baby aspirin and a host of supplements and vitamins. Laprascope '09, lupron shots '09, trying out acupuncture and chiropractic right now too.
Next Appointment: Consult in late November with RE, waiting for him to hear back from another specialist on some odd test results.
Cycles TTC another: 4 1/2 yrs for DS, 3 1/2 yrs so far for #2.

Screen Name (Real Name): JCPACandMommy (Carissa)
Age: 31 (DH 35)
Current Children and age: one DS age 4.5Lost Children and Dates: Oct 25, 2012 Blighted Ovum and Ectopic on Right Ovary at 6w3d
Diagnosis: PCOS as of Jan '12 but I am ovulating RE said I have Old Ovaries and No PCOS?
Treatment and meds: Past: Femara 5mg once daily CD4-8,Metfomin 500mg 3x dialy, Prenatal Daily, HCG trigger ~CD12
New Treatment: Follistim CD 3-8, Estrace CD8-11, Ovadril Trigger CD9, IUI CD11, Endometrin CD 15 on
Next Appointment: Nov 21 F/U from MC and D&C with Methotrexate x2
Cycles TTC another: Mirena Out April 5, 2011 was NTNP till Aug, then active TTC since then with No luck we are on Cycle #18

Women Pregnant and praying to make it. :crossfingers: :preggo: :pray: If you need to be added to this list please give your EDD and the date you will be 12 weeks. Thank you! To find out how many weeks you are use this link.

Screen Name (Real Name): sdavis514 (Sarah)
Age: 32 (DH 33)
Current Children and age: one DS age 5
Lost Children and Dates: none
Diagnosis: We were NTNP for 4 years, diagnosed with PCOS in 2003 and put on clomid from 9/04-1/05, no results, took break and became pregnant with DS with no intervention in Aug 2006. Recent blood work suggested no insulin resistance.
Treatment and meds: IVF
Next Appointment: 12/19 another beta check
Cycles TTC another: NTNP for 4 years, Actively TTC since Jan 11
EDD: 8/20/13
12 week mark: 2/5/13

Screen Name (Real Name): love4leon (Rebecca)
Age: 38 (DH 38)
Current Children and age: Winnie 5 years
Diagnosis: Endometriosis (Me) DH diagnosed with Low sperm count, low motility, and liquidation. 5/11 diagnosed with testicular cancer. Finished chemo August 2011
Treatment and meds: IUI done 1/2/2011, 2/5/2011, 3/2011, 4/2011 Clomid days 5-9, trigger shot and IUI on 2/14/2012,IVF starts June- Egg retrieval June 20th. Have 8 Day 5 embryos waiting for us.
Next Appointment: November 26th for u/s
Cycles TTC another: 3 years
12 weeks: January 11, 2013

Screen Name (Real Name): finleyjudemommy (Susan)
Age (DH): 47 (ME) 36
Current Children and age: B/G twins 6 and YDD 4
Lost Children and dates: M/C March 04, M/C June 09, Chemical Feb 10 and stillborn October 10
Next appointment:
Will be 23 weeks on Friday. Due date is Feb 8 although will be induced before that. We have opted not to find out the gender.

Screen Name (Real Name): ingrid5699 (Ingrid)
Age (DH): 41 (ME) 37
Current Children and age: Patrick, 5 years, Aurelia 3 years
Lost Children and dates: triplets Nov. 2004, baby B May 2006, latest little angel 2'12, chemical pregnancy 6'12
Diagnosis: Me: endometriosis and immunological issues, DH: male factor
Treatment and Meds: fresh IVF #10 done, too many meds to list
Cycles TTC another: never prevented after DD was born 12'08, 4 fresh IVFs, 1 FET this time around (and 2 FETs with nothing to transfer)
Due date: May 30th
Will be 12w Nov 15th

Screen Name (Real Name): yellowitchgrl (Sarah)
Age: 30 (husband 34)
Current Children and age: Andrew-7, Luke-4
Lost Children and Dates: Zach (15w, 7/09), Toby (12w, 12/09), Simon (14w, 6/11)
Diagnosis: I'm perfectly healthy, so are the babies (except they're dead)
Treatment and meds: Praying and some extra folic acid (my idea, not docs)
Next Appointment: Not bothering.
Cycles TTC another: Not trying, but not preventing either

Screen Name (Real Name): Psylion (Alanna)
Age (DH): 37 (ME) 38
Diagnosis:high FSH and DOR
Treatment and meds: this will be our third injectables cycle with iui, the first two were with letrozole and menopur and this one is just menopur and metformin
Current Children and age: Sequoia is 4 1/2
Lost Children and dates: early MC 2/12
Next appointment: ?
Cycles TTC another: we only prevented a few months since DD was born
EDD: 12/12/12
12 weeks: May 30, 2012[/COLOR]


Screen Name (Real Name): GracieMak'sMama (Sara)
Age: 22 (DH 23)
Current Children and age: one DD age 2(almost)
Diagnosis: Unexplained Infertility
Treatment and meds: Natural diet
Cycles TTC another: Almost a full year.
EDD: Oct 9th
12 weeks: 3/26



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Screen name (Real Name): Fleece Be With You (Jessica)
Age: 24
Children and ages: Hunter, born 9-18-09
Losses: none
Diagnosis: Celiac disease (unconfirmed, but a safe assumption at this point)
Treatment: Very limited version of GAPS diet, digestive enzymes, vitamin supplements
Next Appt: Seeing my chiropractor next week to look into my cortisol/adrenal issues.
Cycles TTC another: We haven't been preventing since Hunter was born.

Screen Name (Real Name): Harmony96 (Andrea)
Age: 33 (DH 31)
Current Children and age: DD (5), DS (29m)
Lost Children and Dates: ^i^ DS 11/27/11-12/24/11
Diagnosis: No official diagnosis, but currently having short luteal phases (6-7 days). Probably is just what my body "does" for its first few postpartum cycles.
Treatment and meds: Prenatal, folic acid, iron, several other supplements. Also trying to eat right and exercise (and hopefully lose about 15 pounds, but none of that has happened yet).
Next Appointment: N/A
Cycles TTC another: Lost baby was a c-section, had VBAC consult in March '12 and was told we could go ahead and try again if we felt ready.

Screen Name (Real Name): Hannah Elise (errr.. Hannah... hehe)
Age: 23, and dh is 22
Diagnosis: non-celiac gluten intolerant, malabsorption of nutrients
Treatment and meds: Gluten-free diet. Supplementing with Metagest (stomach acids and enzymes to improve proper digestion), aloe vera gel, and probiotics. Current Children and age: Asher (aka "Wee Goon"), 12.5 months
Cycles: 12/4/11, 1/12/12, 2/11/12, 3/20/12

Screen Name (Real Name): Vegan Princess (Cindy)
Age (SO):32
Current Children and age: Child 1: 2.5 yrs
Lost Children and dates: Chemical pregnancy (11/10), miscarriage at 9.5 weeks (5/11), possible chemical pregnancy (9/11)
Diagnosis: Diminished ovarian reserve for me. Moderate or severe male factor (depending on who you ask) for DH
Treatment and Meds:Beginning 2nd IUI cycle w/5mg femara, ovidrel trigger and prometrium. Will do this cycle and one more IUI and then meet with doctor to discuss IVF or using donor egg. - Moved to IVF
Next appointment: Follicle scan on 9/ 29. IUI on 10/1 or thereabouts. Will meet with RE to discuss game plan again in November.
Cycles TTC another: Had IUD removed 4/10 but really have been trying since 6/10.


Screen name (Real Name): heatherlovesCD's (Heather)
Age: me - 33, hubby - 38
Children and ages: boy 6, Twins girl/boy 4, Twins boy/boy 22 months.
Losses: March '07
Diagnosis: severe male factor infertility
Treatment: IVF/FET, 1 fresh IVF cycle = 1 boy. FET's = 1 early m/c, 2 sets of twins, 1 BFN
Cycles TTC another: I don't keep track. We have been TTC since 11/10.
Due date: Oct 15th
Date I'll be 12wks: 4/2/12


Screen Name (Real Name): Sillyutalktome (Jeanette)
Age: 30 (DH 29)
Current Children and age: Dd - M - 6/08
Lost Children and Dates: Etopic 7/09 (8 weeks) Possible chemical 6/10
Diagnosis: tubal infertility & male factor
Treatment and meds:1st IVF 10/18/11 BFN, FET planned for January
BFP: 2/7/12
EDD: 10/12/12[/QUOTE]


Screen Name (Real Name): Wordmama (Lucy)
Lost children: 8 early miscarriages, Libi (8 week ectopic, March 2011)
Diagnosis: Damaged right tube for me, poor morphology for DH
Treatment and meds:Prayer, maca, zinc
Cycles TTC another: Over a year
EDD: June 18, 2012


Screen Name (Real Name): Dewberri (joy)
Lost Children and dates: Dec. 2010 (6 wks); June 2011 (Kayle(e), 11wks)
Diagnosis: ANA, nonspecific
Treatment: Aspirin daily, Progesterone till 10 weeks
EDD: June 14, 2012


Screen Name (Real Name):
Liz*RN*BSN (Elizabeth)
Lost Children: 5 early m/c
Diagnosis: PCOS, Recurrent Miscarriage, Factor 5 Leiden Clotting Disorder
Treatment and meds: Lovenox, Baby Aspirin, Metformin, PNV, Endometrin
TTC: Over 1 year

Screen Name (Real Name): Meldo (Melissa)
Losses: 1
Diagnosis: DH has low sperm count/motility. Both of our kids were IVF/ICSI babies.
Cycles TTC another: It's our 8th (and last) IVF cycle.
EDD: May 1, 2012

amyltc 02-06-2013 01:01 AM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
K, I haven't done updates yet, I will work my way through them. If you need anything updated let me know :)


Question, as I'm thinking about this. And hopefully I won't need to make this decision, but we are doing up to 4 IUIs. One in Feb., April, May and June. If they fail we will likely do IVF (we haven't totally decided if we will, but we are leaning that way.) Well we can really only do it in the summer, its just too hard with me teaching to do it in the school year. Looking at the calendar, if the June cycle fails it would be ending on June 24th or so. Would we have enough time to do an IVF cycle between then and August 20th? I would want to be done and have beta results back before school started. Does it take the same amount of time as an IUI cycle? Should we only do 3 IUIs? We've done 2 with clomid and 2 with injectibles in the past. If we do it this summer we will only have about 1/4 of the cost covered and would finance the rest. If we wait until next summer we'd have probably 1/2 or more covered, but its waiting a whole year too when we've already been trying for 4 and Hannah is almost 5 and there would be a 7 year age gap by time the baby got here if IVF was successful.
Then there is the quesiton of whether to do the low stim or regular IVF. Low stim would be about 8,000 with meds and the other is about 12,000, BUT with low stim chances are lower of course and there are likely no embryos to freeze and try again if it fails. All this things are making my head spin.

I just need to go back to worrying about this cycle and go from there, I just like to have a plan and its killing me that I don't have one.

Love4leon 02-06-2013 08:45 AM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
Hi Amy- Does your insurance cover IUI's? I only ask because now knowing all that I know about IVF, I wish we would've skipped all the IUI's and went straight for IVF. I have new reasons too for liking IVF- not only because it got me pregnant :/

One thing that I learned going through everything is that it is controlled but still unpredictable. You can develop OHSS after the egg retrieval, you can have polyps (like me) etc... that can prolong IVF and make it tough to do everything one month after another. I had surgery for my polyp, but then while I was in the middle of my cycle- we found another polyp so we weren't able to do a fresh cycle- instead I had to have surgery again and freeze the embryos- then it took another few months before we could do the transfer. It just doesn't always go as planned. If your clinic is near you- I think you'd be able to do IVF while teaching. I did it, and I know a lot of other people who did it also. Most of it is just getting quick ultrasounds- the shots and most everything else is done at home. The egg retrieval is about a day (you get put under) and the transfer would be perfect if done on a Friday or a long weekend- you will probably want to do bed rest for a couple days after. I think it is doable, but do what makes you most comfortable :)

carriek38 02-06-2013 10:44 AM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
I have to agree with Rebecca. I did 5 IUI cycles (4 w/ injectibles) last year & just did one IVF cycle. My meds were pretty much exactly the same for the IUI & IVF (they added estrogen post-transfer, otherwise the regimen was identical). The monitoring regimen was identical. The timeline was identical. The big differences were that I needed DP to take off & drive me for my retrieval b/c of the anesthesia, & I did take the transfer day off.

I think that IVF gets built up to be this huge, invasive thing...and it is intense, but if you can complete a medicated IUI cycle, the IVF cycle (barring any special regimen) should be manageable. I was actually surprised by how similar to IUI it was...of course, my biggest complaints were that I had a reaction to the topical prep they use for retrieval & that I didn't end up pg. But I was going to try to call my RE today to try to get them working on insurance approval for cycle #2!

amyltc 02-06-2013 11:57 AM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
I talked to dh about it today and we decided we would only do two more IUIs. The one this month and then the one in April. If neither of those work, I think we are going to move on to IVF this summer, I'm hoping the beginning of June so I'm not stressing about it all summer. It freaks me right out. Mostly the money but also the emotional investment. If IVF doesn't work that is the end of the road for us. We've agreed that we will not do any more treatments after that. We will never prevent, but we will be done, we may do foster care, but not for a couple more years.

slimy72 02-06-2013 08:22 PM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
I feel so dumb. Yesterday I was so very sick. I was questioning if I could even handle a new born if lack of sleep did that to me. I had chills, shaking, and a host of digestive issues. Late last night, dh figured out that it wasn't lack of sleep at all, I had food poisoning from a cheese cake I ate. I made cheesecake sunday. But the recipe called for it to bake for 3 hours 10 min. and when it was ready to put in I only had 2 1/2 hours until we were leaving for church. So dumb me, I left it sitting on the counter. Then the recipe called to bake it for three hours at 200 degrees and let it sit in a turned off oven for 2 more hours. Well, 200 isn't hot enough to kill anything so I basically turned my cheesecake into a perfect incubation vat. Then top it off that when I cut into it after chilling, the middle was still runny. So what did dumb me do? Cut off the outside done parts and ate them. DS didn't want any and dh got a tummy ache after 1 bite. But not me, I ate 4 pieces. No wonder I'm so sick. But the bright side to that is I'm no longer so upset that I can't handle a lack of sleep. I'm feeling a little better today but my tummy is still super tender and I'm feeling really shaky and weak.

In other news, I had my consult with the OBGYN who's going to do my surgery. I'm a little nervous. I guess my last surgery I was at stage 4 endo. With what I told him and his exam he thinks it's pretty extensive in there. So he won't be doing a lazer/laproscope this time. He's actually going to be doing cutting / knife type surgery. He said it's more invasive and goes deeper but it's a better option for me as it will get more out. He knows that my number one priority is to have another child and so he agreed that if the endo was in a place that cutting into would take away that chance, he would leave it put- so no matter how bad it is, he won't take an ovary, tube, ect.... But he will of course clean them out, just not remove them no matter how warranted it may be. I'm good with that. He said on the laser one they tell people a 3-7 day recovery (mine took about a week last time), this time he said plan on a 3day-3 week recovery, and to take at least a week off work. I'm a little nervous now. My mom was going to come a few weeks before and stay for a week and three days after. But when I told her she is now changing her plans and coming just one week before and planning to stay for three weeks after. So I have to have one more pre op a week or two before hand and the surgery is all scheduled for March 21. That should set us up perfectly to start our first medicated cycle in May, and we'll start injectables and iui in June. I feel good having a plan in place. I'm just really ready for this to work. Next month marks the four year mark since we started actively trying for number two. And we've now been trying for 10 years, and I'm just getting impatient. I don't think I've every truely admitted to myself that I know my family may be done at 1 child. But when I was talking to the Dr. today and made him promise not to remove anything I suprised myself. He told me that if he left an ovary in that needed to come out I would get some function out of it until it got to bad and then I would have to have further surgery much sooner than if he just took it out (but he was totally fine if that's what I choose). I kind of shocked myself when I told him that if he would just fix me up so I can have one more child I would let him take out whatever the heck he wanted. I guess I always thought I would have at least 3-4 kids. I always thought as soon as number two works we would start trying for number three. Suddenly I feel like if I could just have two, I will quit pushing. My son won't be alone, and I'll be done with all the stress that TTC is for us. I feel surprisingly at peace with that. Now I just have to get number 2 to work.

Oh, and for anyone that is wondering, we lost the lamb today. It had a bowel obstruction and try as we might we couldn't save it. So now I'm having to milk a ewe to keep her from getting mastitis. While I'm recovering from food poisoning: fun times!

Kotzurk 02-06-2013 09:08 PM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
Going in for another u/s tomorrow. Praying Baby A is starting to catch up rather than continuing to decline.


Also, you can move me to the pregnant and hoping to make it. 12 weeks is March 13th. EDD is Sept 25th

slimy72 02-06-2013 09:23 PM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
Good luck tomorrow! And, Good night all.

meeshkasheeba 02-06-2013 09:32 PM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
I'm sorry about the lamb. That sucks all around.

Prayers for baby A. Keep us Updated. Good Night.


Day 1 for me. I am sad.

Love4leon 02-06-2013 09:53 PM

Re: Blessed with Children, Struggling for More February
 
Oh my goodness Laurel! Where to begin? First- I'm so sorry about your lamb. What a sad couple night s you are having! Second- thank goodness you are ok after the food poisoning!!! You poor thing- you must feel terrible!!! I would've probably done the exact same thing though- I love cheesecake :) I am also so sorry to hear that the endometriosis is probably extensive- I sure hope your Dr can get most of it out and help your fertility. Though- I've got to say that after the surgery and the plan to go ahead with fertility drugs sounds pretty promising for you. Hopefully the result will be you getting your BFP by summer!!!! :)

Kelsie- Praying for Baby A- I hope it is good news tomorrow. You are in my thoughts.

Tina- So sorry about CD1 :( Hope this new cycle does the trick for you!


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