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Old 05-18-2010, 05:40 PM   #23
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Re: HOW does one decide?!

I would only ask one first but that is because I don't want hurt feelings. I hear you should have a back up incase for some odd reason the first can't. We don't have that. But my aunt who is I think 16 years older than me is who we picked. This stays even after the divorce. We asked her and said we understand you have to talk to uncle kevin and she said yes no question! Granted we only have one. She did tell me last month that it goes for any future children I have as long as their father agrees. She has 2 teen boys one in college and one graduating HS next year. So she is almost at the empty nest stage, but more than willing to go back to almost step one.
For me I would start with whoever the kids know the best right now and if they say no then decide.
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