Re: HOW does one decide?!
DH and I have decided that we want a friend of DH's to take DS if something were to happen to us. The girls would go with their dad. I'm not certain that DH has talked to his friend, but I know he's take LJ in a heartbeat. He's Uncle P" to him already and Uncle P loves him like crazy.
It's hard to think about things like this, but I learned early on that you just never know what will happen day to day and you have to be prepared.
Amanda: mommy to DDs Alyssa and Trinity (ADHD)
and DS Joseph "LJ" (aspergers, ADHD)
and my fur baby Bella Rae Wife to Joe
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