Re: Opinions on how far to space kids apart...
My kids are nearly 4 years apart [ 3y 9m ] and I think it is way too much of an age gap. The transition was easy because DS was already so independent when DD made her arrival, but it saddens me that there probably won't be a time where they have the same interests. Atleast not for several years.
DH & I already decided that we want there to be no more than 2 years between #2 & #3.
DS (8) DD (4)
expecting our 2nd baby
girl next March