Re: kind of upset..
well yes i suppose your right scatterbrainedmom. i really hope i didn't upset anyone or hurt their feelings. i still do think that the mw is not a misinformed person, she is just trying to do the best for her patients and it is by no means something you should find a new mw over. in fact it's just the opposite (even if you do decide to continue nursing that is your business), what i mean is she cares enough to give you her best advice even if it means possibly hurting your feelings. this is good b/c you know she cares. so you should definately stick with her unless there's other signs in the future that you need a new one.
and yes i believe soy milk does have vit D