Re: she told me to just RELAX and let him have Pampers.
1) Defriend this chick. Life is too short to have needless drama on Facebook of all places.
2) Before you defriend her tell her to mind her own business and worry more about HER child and less about yours.
3) Is there anyone that can be sure to pick DS up before Crazy Lady gets there? Can you arrange for Grandma to have him in another room with a monitor in a swing or something (provided he's not upset/crying or something) while Crazy Lady is picking up her DD if you're late?
. Helpmeet to my hottie hubby, Josh. Devoted Mama to my Wolf scout-bookworm-sports-a-holic James (7), my Daisy Scout Princess Aldria (5) and my 2 year old Tornado Emmett and [COLOR="Magenta"] and my tiny squish Cora Paige! (May 2013)