Re: she told me to just RELAX and let him have Pampers.
No better advice than what was already posted... just wanted to offer support! I hope things get better for you, it's so hard feeling pressure from family when you're a first time mom. I've just decided that people are crazy and you (and maybe his dad), as the mama, are the only one that truly has your child's best interest at heart!
Good luck to you!