Re: charting q
Uh....I think when we dtd after midnight I counted it the same day - so 2am on Monday I counted it on Sunday. I think you can do either one if you want - it mostly counts that you wrote it down, KWIM? If it was midnight I pretty much always did the previous day (or in the case above I counted it as Wed. night).
I would suggest marking it (the pull and pray sex) and try to find some mark to put next to it or on the same day that says that he pulled. I would think you'd want it on there just in case - but I would find a way to mark it so you knew what it was. HTH!