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Old 09-18-2010, 12:33 PM   #376
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Re: Asked not to nurse my son at church b/c...

i wouldn't leave and i would make it very clear that the problem is HIS, not yours, not your baby's. if HE has problems then HE needs counseling. not you. you are doing what is normal, natural, and wonderful for YOUR CHILD. you are not just flopping it all out for everyone to see and HE was looking at YOU, not you forcing him to see anything at all.

and i wouldn't, be advocating my fellow BFing moms to come to a church in which they wouldn't be welcomed whole heartedly. if they aren't leaning towards church being a good option for them, being criticized by anyone in the church ESP the pastor, for doing something so normal (that someone who goes to that church from a BFing group invited them to!) because 1 person has an issue with self control and keeping his mind out of the gutter.

HE has problems and i'd make that VERY VERY VERY clear to your pastor.
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