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Old 04-27-2006, 03:51 PM   #21
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Re: DH got mad at me because...

Kaela,

I know you're not the only one that has a DH that says things that aren't the nicest...I think we all have that situation. It's so hard sometimes not to take out our frustration on those we love and at times the words can say what we're feeling in ways that hurt each other.

It's great to hear that you are understanding how he's feeling (stressed, anxious, frustrated) and are putting that into perspective so that you don't allow that comment to hurt you too deeply. I'm glad to hear that it sounds like he didn't mean to say something hurtful- because I know of jerk men that do and women who are badly in need of emotional healing.

I think the most important part is giving yourself permission to say, I'm not going to accept that comment. Although you can't stop someone from saying something, we have the power to accept it or reject it in our hearts.

Hugs from another 'ready to drop and pop' mama!

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