Re: What type of baby-wearing sling/holder do you use?
I couldn't pull off the Moby wrap. I am super small up top and think I couldn't get it tied. All of my friends love it though so I think I am the odd one.
I wore the original Hotslings sling. They come in different sizes so you should be able to find one that fits you near perfectly.
We weren't told to not hold our NICU preemie once we got home. I did make sure to feed him before any activity but once he was all fed up, I snuggled with him. I would think that kangarooing even once home will continue to help the baby get settled.