Re: Would you do it? Donor Milk?
I'd do it Tracy. I'd want to talk to the mama before and feel them out. I trust my instincts and if anything at all felt even the slightest bit weird, then I would pass. I'd also ask for - and pay for - a blood screening and would probably re-do the screening every few months unless I particularly trusted them.
Honestly, I'm not sure how my DH would feel about it, but I'd convince him to do donor milk. When I feel super strongly about something, I can usually talk him into it. This is one that I would work hard to get his buy-in.
Jamie, SAHM to Rosemary 5/08 and Faye 9/10