Re: Am I being unreasonable? (sorry...long)
I had people show up at my dd labor after I explicately said I wanted only me & dh there. I'm still so angry about it. It totally disrupted my labor, I feel like my trust was betrayed by several people. I think you are totally reasonable. You should also check if you can have the hospital refuse to let people in. I didn't do that cause I never imagined I would need to, next time I will.