Re: hayden or shelby???
Shelby flows better with your other names, and is more feminine. All your names will end in the "y" sound. Hayden is a more boyish name to me but of course I am probably biased as its DS3's name.
Mom of FIVE boys ages 16, 14, 11, 3, 1. Yep, life is busy and at this point there aren't any labels I claim. I am just trying to love them and not go crazy LOL.