How are you avoiding?
The title says it all! How are YOU avoiding???
DH and I use the withdrawl method to avoid. I'm an avid charter but we don't do anything special when I'm fertile. We just always withdrawl.
I know many people don't believe the withdrawl method is effective but it's never failed us and we've got quite a bit of experience with it. We follow the rules and DH has excellent timing. We're also very open to a "suprise" pregnancy. We plan on having more children, just not yet. I'm allergic to latex condoms and I want my cycles to run their natural course. The withdrawl method is a prefect fit for us!