[Fullhouse]

I was 22 when my first was born. Are we ever old enough for a first?

I don't know what to tell you about church. I just don't go anymore. There was a bunch of hypocrasy. Be good on Sunday, but tell the people at the zoo your 3 yo is really 2 so they get in free. Maybe vist another church or 2? It could even be good for the kids to learn about other churches.

For the church mom, I would say something like "What we do works for our family, and if I need help I will ask. Thank you for your conern." Not rude, but gets the point across.