Re: bfing a squirmy and fussy newborn - HELP!
Tips to see about your letdown...does she choke or cough? Can you tell when pumping that you get a lot during your letdown? Is she gassy? If you remove her during your letdown are you spraying?
The opposite could be happening as well, meaning she may be impatient if you don't let down fast enough. If you don't think you have a strong/fast letdown, then it may be that she is just impatient. Is she fussy the entire feeding or just the beginning? PM if you want to discuss further, but I truly hope it works out for you.