Re: Terrible twos
Yeah, it's the age.
DH hates for DS to feed himself anything messy, like yogurt or soup. DS resents Daddy helping. Personally, I find wiping up accidental yogurt spills, while not entirely enjoyable, distinctly preferably to a pitched battle about who is going to hold the spoon. I just put one of those sleeved bibs on him and resign myself to the inevitable. (I also think it's a little silly that DH insists on hand-feeding a two-and-a-half year old, but that is neither here nor there.)
And of course with me DS wants to fight about clothes. I let him pick once and change his mind once, and then I pick. I also only let him pick one thing - usually shirt - because it bugs me when he's out and about looking like he was dressed by a colorblind circus clown.