Re: I HATE BFING!!!!!!!
Have you asked advice from a local lactation consultant? Someone who might even be able to come to your house or meet you somewhere to help you with all your issues and questions. I met with one when my dd was 2 weeks old and it REALLY helped!
Have you asked your bf to be more involved and specifically told him what you need him to do? That's ridiculous that you have to do everything while he lazes around. Honestly I imagine the stress of that makes bfing that much more irksome because he gets to do what he wants while you struggle with your dd.
keep in mind that your dd is still VERY young and this is all new for her and you. She could have some health issues like reflux or colic so def. go to your doctor and ask.