I am so fed up with ds2 (he's 4.5) bathroom issues. He has pooped in his pants for the last 4 days. This has been an ongoing thing that creeps up now and then but never this long. He is horrible about peeing also. He still is in pull-ups at night and we struggle all day asking him, telling him, running to the bathroom etc. I took him to the doctor about 6 months ago but the pooping issues weren't there then. They had me collect some pee in a cup and they tested it for infection, everything was normal.
I can't decided whether to start punishing him for this stuff (which I really don't want to do) or setting up some sort of reward system. Any suggestions?
hopelessly in love with my US Marine and three little men 12, 7.5 and 4 years<--what! When did that happen?