Re: I'm high risk, not sure if benefits outweigh..
I agree with both of the above.. if YOU and DH feel that your health would be at risk then maybe try a surrogate... but I would get a new doctor who will discuss all of it WITH you and be honest about how to proceed. Of course, you don't want your body to freak out if you are stressed all the time thinking of the negatives that could possibly happen during a pregnancy with an OB who isn't supportive... so it's a lot to consider. I would look into a Midwife who works with a supportive doctor. Good Luck!
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