Re: 11 months postpartum & still no sex drive..
Sorry, mama! It could take longer than 4 weeks for your hormones to return to normal. But it's definitely worth a call to your OB/MW to have a chat about it - there may be something they can do.
You also need some space, time, relaxation - even a little will help - and maybe some sexy movies or tv? Maybe TMI, but you don't have to go to full on ****, you can just watch like a sexy HBO show or something to help you start to think about sex again. It took me a LONG time...15 months...to start feeling like it would be an ok thing to think about. Now, while it's not the same as before DD (time, stress, exhaustion, etc), we have a normal sex life, and it has improved our relationship significantly.