Guess its my turn! I'm a (maybe) soon to be single mom of 1 and have another boy due 11/1/11! The divorce is suppose to be finalized in Dec... but now that both of us aren't living in CA anymore we aren't really sure if will go threw. Stbx is in the military so its not like i've had a lot of help from him anyway! Oh and try and ignor my username lol... things have changed... odviously.