Re: BLW and squeezy pouch babyfood...
I think it counts. My six year old loves the pouches of applesauce in his lunch. They are identical to the baby food pouches except filled with applesauce and marketed to big kids. If it counts as him feeding himself when he eats those, then its BLW when your baby does the same.
I don't really believe in following a specific set of rules for any aspect of parenting though. So if its working for you, its all good. Call it BLW you want to!
mama to 2 sweet little boys and a new baby girl!