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Old 10-01-2011, 08:55 PM   #4
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Re: waiting for a snip

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Originally Posted by tasundance View Post
Im no help on any topics of birth control but if its not too rude of me to ask...can I ask why you only wanted one child?
not rude at all.
but....lol...now im having trouble putting it into words that dont make it sound as if i am putting down families with sibling groups. So, ill just say this ahead of time--I make no judgments of parents who have/want to have more than 1, the number of kids you have has no bearing on how good of a mommy/daddy you are to your babies....ok, so here goes....

First, when we talked about our family, for some reason we both only pictured one child. Second, having only one allows for us to concentrate our resources for his benefit. emotionally and monetarily--private school tuition, for example. Third, i loved being an only child, DH hated being 1 of 6.
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