Re: Frustration with my MW
Fire her trash. If any of the other moms give you trouble about it, just point to her unreliability when getting back to you. Make it sound, as I'm sure it is, like it was a very difficult decision because "you liked her so much". No matter how sweet and otherwise capable she seems, why would you want a MW you couldn't rely on? A little white lie, to keep from alienating the group, wouldn't hurt.
Either way, I really hope you find something that works for you, and that the other moms are understanding of it.
Married 03.06 to the cutest man I know: Soldier by day, CrossFit instructor by night.
Loving our rainbow twins, Sullivan and Benjamin (5.12)
Parenting consistently and in love is all the matters. Your label or philosophy won't raise good children, your example will.