[bluemoonbutterfly]

I also say wait. I have a friend that remarried after her and her first husband had been divorced for awhile. Things went as far as the bio dad giving up his rights so that my friends new husband could adopt them. Well things did not work out and they have been split up for about 4 months. The girls hardly ever see the bio dad or the step dad and it is extremly confusing for them. They are 8 and 4.