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Old 01-11-2012, 09:14 AM   #11
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Re: Alternative parenting decisions ever a problem for foster/adoption?

I dont think any of those things automatically disqualify you as long as you are ok with parenting a kid the way someone else wants you to temporarily in some ways. If youre not ok with that, thats what would disqualify you from foster/adopt. Its not your kid until finalization.

I think it varies quite a bit between counties so if you are interested you will have to inquire about those things. I am getting concerned about the vaxxing thing though we have a semi-valid medical reason so im crossing my fingers it will be ok. The rest i dont really think is relevent, besides cosleeping, but many counties are ok with it just not bedsharing which is a small compromise in my mind.
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