[FindingMercy]

Originally Posted by kbz2002 Can yhou have your DH call mine.. would be so much easy and faster if I could get DH on board and I didn't have to argue about getting rid of things. The other day I sold one thing on craigslist and DH said "why we might use it". My reply was well, we already have one and we don't use it and it's been in the box now for 4 years!!! He argued with me that we don't have one, I had to bring him downstairs and show him where we have it. His reply was "well what if we need two". My reply was "it's been 4 years and we haven't used 1". Let me get rid of it. He did but seriously the arguement was so dumb. He just wants to hold onto stuff "just incase". I still have stuff new in the box from when we got married almost 10 years ago that he doesn't want me getting rid of. It's frustrating.

This is how my in-laws are and my DH is becoming the opposite because he sees how it's destroyed their home to keep things "just in case". He loves things looking clean and uncluttered.