Re: we're still home...
wow Kim... sounds like you have some busy days ahead!
I think I agree with your pediatrician, hospitalizing kids is scary stuff. Espeically with your boys immune issues, staying anywhere near a hospital longer than neccesary seems a bit dangerous.
Besides, staying in a hospital for an indefinate amount of time is hell on your mental health. I think you will all be feeling better to be able come home to your own bed, or at least a hotel bed.
I am keeping my fingers crossed for you that this new guy has some answers no one else was able to come up with! I think its great though that all your drs are on the same page (well mostly) and talk to eachother to figure out the best course of action.
Keep us updated, I am hoping for you!