Go with your gut. I'm more paranoid, and my first thought from your story was they were taking the milk to sell (illegally) so the less work they did, the better. If I was accepting a donation of anything, I'd take it upon myself to drive to pick up or pp the money first, and never expect or even consider putting the donor in a position to cater to me. As long as you go with your heart and gut things will work out fine!
Alicia, soggy granola momma to L
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