Re: finding out gender
My husband and I are not finding out, but we're finding a lot of pressure from other people. We're of the mindset that it's one of those few amazing surprises in life that you can still have. And no matter what you have it will be amazing! I think finding out before would be a little like opening up your Christmas present early just so you know what you're getting. To me, it ruins the anticipation. I'm super excited to find out in 4 months, but it is hard because I want to go out and buy all the cute little clothes, but then again you get to be really creative with gender-neutral stuff!