Re: Potential move to (south) NJ from AL...yikes!
Well I hope everything works out for you. Our move down here was my first time here. I think my dh's profession is mover. We have lived in KY, WV, NY, and AL since we have been together and I am from NJ. He is already talking about moving again. I want our next to be our last.
Va and NC would be very nice. I think NJ has alot to offer though. I think you will pleasantly surprised with the area you are looking. NJ gets a bad rap but it is a good place to be. Obviously the cost of living is what hurts the state but I guess that is almost everywhere nowadays. And where else can you live where you are that close to Philly and NYC?
Well whatever happens take a deep breath and enjoy the ride. That seems to be my motto after living in all these places.