Re: I did not want to spend my next pregnancy terrified
I have a great obgyn but the obgyns do not deliver your babies like the doctors in the us. You get whoever is on duty at the time of birth.
I know you can hire private midwives for home births, but I cannot have a home birth, and I have to research of the hospitals will let you bring in your own midwife, you may be limited to only choosing from the ones they have on hand.
My last hospital would not even let me mom stay they said I could only have 1 person and made me choose between my mom and dh.
Each place has its own policies and procedures. But I will not be able to use the obgyn who does all my prenatal care.