[kelly_jeanie]

Originally Posted by syfitz I think it's the age, but my response to anything said with attitude is "I can't hear you with that tone " (same thing with whining).

That's what we use here too, a sudden lack of comprehension on my part. "I'm sorry, I can't understand you when you talk like that." If she's asking me (demanding!) for something, "I want milk!", then she needs to ask nice before she gets the milk, "Can I have milk please?" In that case I hold the cards and she has to play by my rules before she gets what she wants (milk).