I can't multi-quote from my phone but THANK YOU to the last 2 posters!
They did put a monitor on her head when they broke my water. I never knew that was a more accurate way.
And thank you RN! In my case the midwife will not take me because midwifed are covered by health care and very selective. They've already told me . However, a fighting chance for my baby's life is all I want at the end of the day.
So much amazing and helpful information. I'm honestly in tears from all the responses. I haven't been able to sleep or think of anything else and it's horrible.
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear." -- Ambrose Redmoon